The Truth About #Abundance: Why You’re Still Living on Crumbs
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What happens when your entire relationship with money, worthiness, and abundance is built on stories you absorbed before you were old enough to understand them? And what if those stories are the very things keeping you stuck, small, and spiritually exhausted?
 
In this powerful, hilarious, and deeply human conversation, we sit down with Sarah Walton... speaker, teacher, money mentor, and creator of The Abundance Academy...to dismantle the myths that keep so many of us living on emotional and financial crumbs. 

Sarah’s journey begins in a grocery store in Utah, where teenage Sarah realizes she must choose between her family’s survival and her own dreams. That moment shapes decades of decisions, right up until she’s a high-powered corporate executive with a corner office, a ficus tree, two kids she barely sees… and a constant sense that something is deeply off. 

Her story is raw, relatable, and a wake-up call for anyone who has ever believed “I can’t have both,” “there’s not enough,” or “wanting more makes me selfish.” 

In This Episode, We Explore:
1. The Three Money Myths Holding You Back
Borrowed from Lynn Twist’s The Soul of Money, and expanded through Sarah’s teaching:

  • Myth #1: There’s Not Enough — The scarcity mindset that keeps us hoarding, shrinking, and apologizing for wanting more.
  • Myth #2: More Is Better — The endless treadmill of “just one more digit,” and why it never creates fulfillment.
  • Myth #3: That’s Just the Way It Is — The resignation that kills change before it starts… and repeats the same life over and over.
2. Sarah’s Grocery Store Origin Story
How a moment in high school shaped her entire belief system, and how she ultimately broke free after realizing her life was being run by a terrified 16-year-old.
 
3. The Corporate Career Wake-Up Call
The ficus tree. The Jimmy Choos. The constant nausea. The toddler calling her at work. The ticking clock she couldn’t un-hear. And the moment she quit her job that same day.
 
4. How to Stop Living on Crumbs
Sarah explains how to recognize when you’re accepting far less than you deserve... emotionally, energetically, financially — and how to shift into true agency and abundance.
 
5. The Exercises That Rewire Your Brain
Accessible, free, science-backed practices that change your inner chemistry and create real momentum toward your goals.
 
6. A Baymax-Shaped Money Spiritual Guide??
Yes. And honestly… it’s perfect. Sarah shares how she personifies money as a loving, warm, always-present protector inspired by Big Hero 6, and why that exercise changed her life.
 
7. Curveball Questions — Sarah Walton Edition
You know we had to. Sarah reveals:
  • The one push notification she’d send to every phone on Earth
  • The sassiest loving advice she’d whisper to the world
  • And who money would be as a movie character...complete with monologue
Key Takeaways
  • Most people’s money fears come from childhood, but adulthood offers the chance to rewrite the script.
  • Wanting more doesn’t make you greedy; it makes you honest.
  • You don’t need millions of followers, you just need the right “small but mighty” group who values your work.
  • Awareness is the first step to freedom, especially when it comes to money.
  • It is dangerous, spiritually, emotionally, financially, to believe “this is just the way things are.”
Tools, Links & Resources Mentioned
Sarah Walton’s Website https://sarahwalton.com
Includes her free Freedom Calculator - a PDF that helps you determine your personal financial freedom number and start moving toward it with clarity and purpose.
 
Game On Girlfriend Podcast - Sarah’s show 

YouTube Channel - More teachings, stories, and money-myth busting. 

🔥 Final Thought
This episode is a call to stop negotiating with scarcity, stop apologizing for wanting more, and stop accepting crumbs when you were born to own the bakery.

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Karen, Yes, do you remember that time when I looked

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at our bank account and thought, uh, Universe, I thought

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we agreed in abundance. Apparently I have been manifesting tuponds.

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Okay, an abundance.

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Of couconos or like five percent of all the all

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of the above, all the above, see okay. Our guest

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went from childhood where money was, let's say, scarce, to

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building this powerhouse mission that helps women stop living on

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emotional and financial crumps and actually step into the life

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that they're here to, living like the real one, not

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to be grateful for the bare minimum and smile one

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that we are told about. Right, She's basically the love

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child of a mindset coach, a business strategist, and that

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one friend who will lovingly call you on your bullshit

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while handing you a latte and a hug. And I

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know what you're thinking, Karen. Yes, she did say we

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all need to stop apologizing for wanting more thinking, but

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I know you were about to. I'm going to be

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putting out that T shirt anyway, but we're busting those

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pesky money myths that has kept us always wishing for

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more Because we were about to step out of the

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crumbs and into the whole damn bakery. Welcome to the

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Skeptic Benevolicians. My name is Will and I'm garous, and

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unlike moulderin Scully.

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Both want to believe.

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So we've embarked in a journey of discovery.

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We've talked to people deeply entrenched in the spiritual and

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metaphysical world.

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We've thrown ourselves into weird and wonderful experiences. I even

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joined a coven of witches and wait, you joined a

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coven yep, all the interests of finding something, anything that

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will prove that there's something beyond this physical.

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Three dimensional world we all live in.

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This is the skeptic metapositions. Hey there, it's Will. The

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main reason we do this show is to help others

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in their spiritual awakening, and nothing makes us happier than

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to hear or read messages from those that are resonating

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with the messages we're sharing on the show. So if

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platform that supports them. Karen and I love hearing from

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those that are moved to message us. It truly does

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fuel our passion. You are the reason we do this show,

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and knowing what you like and don't like, well, that's

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can so that we can help raise the vibration of

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the planet together. Okay, I've kept you from the interview

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long enough, so let's get to it. Thanks for listening. Hey,

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thereon will welcome to another soul expanding, belief busting. Oh

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so that's why my life has been like that episode

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of the Skeptic Metaphysitions. This show that reminds you that

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the universe didn't put you here to play small, even

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if your bank account occasionally tries to say otherwise. Today's

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guest is a firecracker, and not the you light once

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and forget it. No, No, this one lights you up.

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See.

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She grew up with money being let's call it a

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creative improvisational art form, then went on to work in

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a high powered corporate space, and somewhere along the way realized, wait,

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women are running households, raising families, holding emotional space for

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literally everyone, and we're still apologizing for wanting abundance. Absolutely not.

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So she build a mission, not a business, a mission

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to help women stop living on crumbs, step into their power,

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value their gifts, and actually get paid for the magic

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that they put into the world. She's equal parts hype woman, strategists,

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spiritual cheerleader, and the person who will lovingly look you

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in the eyes and say you deserve more and you

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know it. Please welcome Sarah Walton to the show. Sarah,

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how are you doing today?

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I'm awesome. Well, you guys, thank you so much for

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having me on. I'm thrilled to be here.

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We are beyond excited to have you. I did a

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very deep dive on your stuff, and to say that

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I'm excited, it's to say it lightly. However, question I

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got to ask is apparently I'm lacking some of the

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plumbing that is necessary for the conversation because you're all

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about women, right, So is this only exclusive to women,

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this conversation that we're about to have.

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It is not exclusive to women.

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I do find that women have been programmed in a

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very different way from when when it comes to money, right,

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and our worthiness and you know this idea that we're

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even supposed to handle it like for so many hundreds

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of years, women were handed from fathers to husbands, right,

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and we were a financial burden. We never touched the money,

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without a man's signature. So there is still some residual

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gunk if you're well women that men don't have to carry.

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is some specialty to working with women specifically about this.

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I said, diving into your website and there's a lot

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of stuff in there that's really good that I really need.

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So I was really hoping that you'd say what you said.

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conversation being in that direction, but I'm glad to know

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that it's for me too.

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I mean, that's why I kept my last name. That is, Yes,

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women were property.

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I'm not speak on I care and speak on. Yeah,

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it's true, it's just a little different, that's all. What

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the main principles do apply. Well, great question, All right.

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All right, well then let's let's get the conversation started

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with the grocery store. You mentioned that there was a

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moment in the grocery store that changed everything for you.

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Can you take us back to that moment in what

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shifted inside you?

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I can. It's a tiny bit of a story. If

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that's okay, absolutely.

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We've got that hour and a half.

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No, just you knows and glasses then no, I'm just kidding.

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It's not that long. But when I was about four

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or five years old, I was watching The Nutcracker with

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my mom. PBS was having their fundraisers for those of

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you that don't remember PBS right that used to have

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fundraisers where you could call in and donate money so

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that these great programs could stay.

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And I was watching The Nutcracker and I remember turning

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to my mom. I was like, I don't know what

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this is, but I want to do that, and just

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looking at this dance as this beautiful art form, and

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that stuck with me all throughout my teenage years and

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well into my twenties. But for the purposes of this story,

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it took me to high school where I really wanted

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to become part of the dance team, and this was

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something that was such a big deal where I was raised.

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I was a raised in a little town called Sandy Utah,

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just outside of Salt Lake City, and it was a

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big deal to make the high school dance team, like

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this was like the thing to do, And so it

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came time for me to try out. We couldn't really

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afford for me to take dance classes. This was not

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something that we could do. So I learned how to

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dance by watching MTV. So Janet Jackson and Paula Abduel

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were my idols. They taught me how to dance. They

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just what and so I really was not trained and

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classically by any sense of that word.

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I worked my rear randof I remember practicing in the basement,

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my knees hurt, I had bruises, I knew how to

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throw chairs and you know, do all of the amazing

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Rhythm Nation moves. And I made the team. And I

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was so stick and excited. And I was in this

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really tight knit community where everybody sort of knew what

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was happening for other people. So people were bringing over

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single roses. It was this huge thing. Sarah made the

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dance team, Oh my god. And then I got the

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letter that talks about how much this is going to cost,

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and you know, I don't know, if you guys have

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ever had one of those experiences where you're like up

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out of your body and you sort of watch yourself

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go through something, it's like, oh, that's happening right now.

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It's like that. You know, my hands got sweaty, my

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stomach fell through the floor. And I remember looking at

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this letter. You know, it had the jacket. It was

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the nineties, so it was like a unit tard right,

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the shoes, the competition, fees, all the thing, and there

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was just no way. There was no way we could

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have this because at this time we were so poor.

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When I say poor, people are like, oh no, we

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were so poor that there were times literally the only

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things in the pantry was like a half a loaf

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of bread my mother had made from scratch and a

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jar of honey the end, like that was it. So

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when I say this was like not affordable, I meant this,

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this really wasn't affordable. And it was this stream since

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I'd had since i'd seen the Nutcracker, So I know

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you're surprised, but I was very frisky, and I decided

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to get a job, the job at the mall. And

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for those of you that are so young, you don't

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know what a mall is. I love you, but you're

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TH's okay. So I went and I got a job

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at the mall, and I was ready one of those

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little kiosks, those little like carts where you sell chrach

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keys nobody needed. But it was like, you know, the

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late eighties, early ninety so it was cool. People were

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buying stuff they didn't need all the time anyway, So

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I sold these choch keys. I did this thing, and

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I got my first paycheck, and I was so excited

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because it was enough for the down payment on my

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dance costumes. And so at the time, I did have

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a bank account, and people used to be in customer

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service back then, like it was actually a thing. So

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you could go to the grocery store and wait in

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the customer service line and cash checks.

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So my mom takes me to the grocery store. It's

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just me and my younger half brother, and we're walking

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into the grocery store to cash this check and my

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mom turns to me and says, Sarah, the groceries, Sorry,

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the strawberries are on sale. Can we get some? So

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I'm thinking of the strawberries, and I'm thinking of my

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dance costumes. And I'm like, eh, yes, we can do that.

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get the strawberries with my younger brother. And now that

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I have the like the cash in hand, I go

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to find them in line at the grocery store, like

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at one of the aisles, and they're not there.

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I look at the.

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Express aisle and I keep going back and forth, and

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finally I see them in line with a cart full

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of groceries. And this is a cart full of groceries.

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I know my mother cannot afford. There's no way she

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can afford this cart. And I'm looking at it. I

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see my younger half brother sitting in the cart and

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his little leg swinging rodever, and I see his favorite

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breakfast cereal milk, cold cuts for his lunches, right bread,

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the strawberries, And I'm standing there, you guys, and I

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have a choice. Right with this money that I have,

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I can either take care of my family or I

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can get something for myself I've wanted for as long

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as I can remember. But I cannot do both. And

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in that moment, I made a decision that I would

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never be able to take care of both my family

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and myself at the same time. And I lived that out.

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I have sixty five cousins. I am the first woman

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in my family to have a college degree.

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I moved to Europe after I graduated college. I moved

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to New York City. I got this high powered job.

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I'm quote unquote killing it.

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Everything looks great. I now have two children. I'm making

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all this money, and I am miserable. And I remember

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sitting in my corporate job, at this great corner office.

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My team is out there, I can see them. I

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have a fighter tree in my office. Right, I feel

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very cool. I have Jimmy shoes shoes like like I accept.

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I'm like nauseous all the time. And I never seen

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my children. And there was one day my daughter called me.

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I think she was eighteen months too, right, just barely

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can talk. But it was miss you, mommy. Oh I die. Right.

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So I'm sitting there. I hang up the phone, and

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I'm hearing the clock in my office take away the

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seconds of my life. And it's just that these I

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can't get that second back, and I can't get that

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second back, and I can't get that second back, and

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all of a sudden In that moment, I remembered the

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sixteen year old girl in the grocery store who decided

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she could never take care of her family and herself

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at the same time. And that sixteen year old girl

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was still running my life. And I'm sitting there in

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this office realizing I'm making all this money for my

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family and I am so unhappy. And that was the

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moment I decided to figure this out in a different way,

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and I decided I was always the only woman in

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the room as a senior executive. It was me and

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the head of HR right, the only women. We're doing

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financial protections, which is fourth grade math, right, Now, here's proprietary.

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Why am I constantly the only woman? What is happening here?

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And why am I afraid to actually take care of

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myself and my family instead of or And that was

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the day I stopped letting that grocery store moment run

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my life. And what sort of made that really poignant

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is I did end up quitting my job that day,

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and I remembered buying the groceries for my family that day,

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which is what I chose to do. And another mom

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in the community found out what had happened. She'd heard

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about what had happened. It still makes me cry to

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this day. But she paid for my dance costumes.

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And in twenty eighteen, twenty nineteen, sorry, right before COVID hit,

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I decided to host a conference in Salt Lake City,

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and so all the people that live with me on

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the East Coast now came out to Salt Lake City.

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I'd known. Two worlds kind of collided at this conference.

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And the woman who bought my costumes came to the conference,

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and I got to bring her up on the stage

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and thank her publicly or how much she had changed

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my life. And it was so moving. And there are

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people who know this is my quote unquote grocery store story, right,

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they know this story. But it was so beautiful to

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be able to bring her up and thank her and

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let everybody in the audience know. I wouldn't be there

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had she not done that, had she not been a

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woman who had access to money who changed someone else's life.

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And it was really beautiful because she actually passed away

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in twenty twenty, and so I was so grateful I

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got to have that moment with her and really bring

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this story to light for people to say, this really

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is what women do when they have money, and we

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never know the ripple effects of what that will end

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up being. Right.

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I heard that story and another podcast, and that is

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the sole reason why I've reached out to you to

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come on the show, because that is a remarkable story

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and it's a story that so many people in different

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situations but can resonate with that it's an important one

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to get out. So thank you very much for taking

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the time and telling us that story, because it definitely

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moved me the very first time. It moved me the

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second time.

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So wow, Yeah, that's just wonderful.

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So how do you let that go, that that decision

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that you made, because so many of us, like Will said,

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have been in kind of similar situations and you can say, oh, yeah,

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I can see how this affected me, But how do

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you get past that?

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Yeah? I think I think recognizing it is a lot

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of the game, was it? Yeah, so many people have

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said ninety percent of success is showing up, right, but

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showing up in that moment and really recognizing that it

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happened and then deciding do you want to continue to

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let a teenager run your life or not? And that

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sounds really simplistic, but you know, do look at world

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leaders at the moment. We look not the moment forever,

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world leaders forever. We look at people out there. We

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can see a bunch of four and five year olds running, yes,

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you know, like, oh, a four year old got stuck,

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and like you're like, oh, I see what's happening.

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Here, d right, and now that's doing a tantrum and

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taking us along with it, you know, right.

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I just take your pick, you can make it fit.

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But it's really interesting to sort of recognize as human beings,

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we get stuck at moments and we let that child,

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whoever that child is, take over and they start running

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the show. And I think when we see that and

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we recognize this, every single one of us, none of

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us is special. No one gets out of childhood without

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this happening. And I think when we can sort of

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step into that shared humanity piece, it's not so scary

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to talk about it. It's and the more we all

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talk about it, the more other people recognize it, and

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just that recognition alone can really start to heal it.

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And I think what's so important about that fact is

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we want to grow. It is a human need to grow.

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When we are not growing, we are not contributing, we

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don't do well, We start to ruminate, we start to

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get anxious, we start to get depressed. And so I

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think we do have this natural propensity towards healing. And

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so once you can see the moment alone, that alone

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is so powerful. It starts to make habits that you

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are quote unquote just this way right, habits that have

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just been this way forever, all of a sudden they

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become quite malleable, and it's really efficient to see them

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and quickly go, oh, oh, was that the sixteen year

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old in the grocery store or is that the thirty

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six year old woman? Hang on right, and you start

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to just in the moment, start to unfold that. And

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that really is what I did. I mean, quitting my

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job that day was a big piece of that. It

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was incredibly scary. I don't mean to say that flippantly.

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It was terrifying, but it was so I just knew

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it was necessary. It was like I've made this in

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either or. And the more that I now teach abundance

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and talk about abundance constantly as a concept, is people

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who are truly abundant in this world are never either

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or they are always both.

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Right.

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You can have this or this both automatic answer both right,

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And it's not out of selfishness. It's out of I'm

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not going to live inside of limitations. Let me figure

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this out, let me see what's actually possible, and that's

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when the new opportunities arise. You can only find what

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we're looking for, so if we're looking for you, or

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that's what you'll find if you're looking for both.

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Which then leads us right into the perfect segue to

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the money myths. Right on your site. You've got a

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great video that you get when you sign up for

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your Freedom Calculator, which we'll talk about, which I love

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and I mentioned before we started recording fell in love

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with it. It's so much so that I changed everything about

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the interview to circle around these three. You have three

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money myths that you talk about, So can you walk

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us through those? Because it goes hand in hand with

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the whole abundance thing.

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Yes, it absolutely does, and I want to I always,

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you know, in this day and age where everybody on

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the internet knows everything, I always love to give credit

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where credit is due. So these three myths I learned

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about first in a book called The Soul of Money,

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which I highly recommend by the author's Linn Twist and

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just an exquisite book. But these three myths I sort

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of took from that book and have expanded and looked at.

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But myth number one is that there's not enough. And

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this one is just so hideous. I hate this one

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so much, but there's not enough, and what I love

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to talk about I have a very funny YouTube video

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about that too that I do about kids who are

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taught to play musical chairs and you take the way chair.

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We're literally teaching scarcity to our children. But anyway, okay,

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that's another story for another time. But yeah, So the

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myth that there's not enough and what I love to

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talk about here is just go to I'd like you

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to look at a garbage can in an amusement park.

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It's disgusting. There's so much food in there. There's so

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much food in there, and yet people are starving, right,

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But we live in this myth of there's not enough.

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So there's not enough. We have plenty of water, and

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we can drop bombs within inches of where they're supposed

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to go, but we can't drop food water in medicine.

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What are you talking about? What? Right? So this idea

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there's not enough, there's more than enough. Right, we live

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into the myth that there's not enough when we start

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to hoard, which is completely against our nature.

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I mean, I'm sure you've seen this conversation sort of

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come up lately as extreme wealth has started to become

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more of our consciousness. But this idea that could you

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imagine a squirrel cowarding all the acorns and all of

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their family dies, That's like not a thing in nature, Like,

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that's not how that would go, ever, and it would

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be very weird, and we would actually study that animal

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and be like, what is wrong with the.

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Right, Like it's so weird.

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But it is because we were born into this myth

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that there's not enough. The second myth is more as better,

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And this one is brutal because it will not let

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you relax. So you've made ten million, well ten million

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and one is better, and so you can't ever be satisfied.

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You can't ever just experience life because there's this constant

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more as better, more as better, more as better. And

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we know this myth isn't true logically, we know it,

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Like I always joke about people who are like, I

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want a really big house, and then they get the house,

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they're like, who the hell's cleaning this thing? You know,

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like every mom I just went ah every day too.

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Now I have to fix the gutter. I gotta do

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this every weekend. Is now like damn this house, right,

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this more is better thing. It can get It can

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get old real quick, right, Like, we can really start

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to see that that's probably not true, but it is

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so part of the air that we breathe from the

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second that we're born, that it's it. It crowds into

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the mind in a way that we're not even aware of.

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And so the more I can talk about with this

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with people, I do, because it starts to again the recognition.

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You can start to see it in different ways, and

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people start putting step back. We have the minimalist movement

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that's happening. People are starting to like, I only buy

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buy clothes from thread up, which is a great app

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I highly recommend it. Right, I always get secondhand closed

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because there's enough clothes, right, I don't need any Like

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this is crazy. This idea that we constantly need more

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is ruining our ability to enjoy our lives and that's

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that's really dangerous. And then the third myth is, well,

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that's just the way it is, right.

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That's my favorite one.

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Because that one keeps the other two locked in, right,

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because it's like, oh, well, if that's just the way

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it is, I'm just going to go over and eat

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a pizza, Like what am I going to do? Right,

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And it allows us to sort of shrug things off

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00:21:23.160 --> 00:21:25.079
or to just you know, say things like, well, you

450
00:21:25.119 --> 00:21:27.119
know what, kids are going to starve. That is just

451
00:21:27.200 --> 00:21:32.920
the way it is. What what more is better? When

452
00:21:32.920 --> 00:21:35.519
other people don't have any what are you talking about?

453
00:21:35.599 --> 00:21:36.920
Like I said, this would be the squirrel that we

454
00:21:36.960 --> 00:21:39.880
would study, like what is wrong with you? And so

455
00:21:40.160 --> 00:21:42.200
if we can work through that last myth that is

456
00:21:42.279 --> 00:21:45.759
so insidious and so lets us off the hook from

457
00:21:45.920 --> 00:21:49.359
expanding ourselves, from asking questions, for looking at where both

458
00:21:49.440 --> 00:21:53.160
is possible. It is so dangerous to stay in that

459
00:21:53.240 --> 00:21:56.519
place that's shrugging. Uh, that's you know, that's just the

460
00:21:56.559 --> 00:21:58.160
way it is. And that's what allows us to have

461
00:21:58.279 --> 00:22:01.559
tomorrow look exactly like today, and three weeks from now

462
00:22:01.599 --> 00:22:04.400
look exactly like today, right, and then we stop looking

463
00:22:04.480 --> 00:22:09.039
at the actions of today that can absolutely alter what

464
00:22:09.079 --> 00:22:11.079
tomorrow looks like, what the next day looks like, what

465
00:22:11.119 --> 00:22:12.839
the next three weeks look like, and we stay in

466
00:22:12.839 --> 00:22:15.200
this pattern of no, this is just who I am,

467
00:22:15.480 --> 00:22:18.000
this is just the way this is. It's like now

468
00:22:18.079 --> 00:22:19.920
all of that is made up, and as soon as

469
00:22:19.920 --> 00:22:21.480
we can start to live in the magic of that,

470
00:22:21.519 --> 00:22:23.200
things really start getting good.

471
00:22:23.640 --> 00:22:29.160
Right, So I can see how I've been kept in

472
00:22:29.839 --> 00:22:34.920
Crumb City. Right, those three are very much in my lane.

473
00:22:35.519 --> 00:22:37.920
It's always been the way. It's always I need to

474
00:22:38.039 --> 00:22:39.880
I need to have more, I need to have more.

475
00:22:40.480 --> 00:22:44.640
I've been an upwardly mobile man my entire career because

476
00:22:44.640 --> 00:22:46.400
I've I've got I've got to go, what's the next step?

477
00:22:46.400 --> 00:22:47.000
What's the next step?

478
00:22:47.000 --> 00:22:47.920
I got to then?

479
00:22:48.039 --> 00:22:50.079
And it is just the way it is, right, So

480
00:22:50.240 --> 00:22:54.079
all three of those are amazing the difference what I

481
00:22:54.119 --> 00:22:56.920
what I do. And we've done the show now for

482
00:22:56.960 --> 00:23:00.440
four years going on five years, and we've thank you

483
00:23:00.519 --> 00:23:03.359
and we've done We've had these conversations a lot with

484
00:23:03.440 --> 00:23:06.640
different people, and it's a really easy thing to say,

485
00:23:08.160 --> 00:23:13.559
stop thinking these things or stop doing what you're doing.

486
00:23:14.119 --> 00:23:18.119
It's a lot harder to actually do it because there's

487
00:23:18.160 --> 00:23:23.640
this law of attraction thing, right, that says, if you

488
00:23:23.799 --> 00:23:25.599
wish for it hard enough, and you can't wish for it,

489
00:23:25.599 --> 00:23:28.759
you have to know it's coming, but you can't have

490
00:23:28.799 --> 00:23:31.039
any doubt because if you have a doubt, it immediately

491
00:23:31.160 --> 00:23:35.400
cancels everything out. So you're constantly like, oh, so you're

492
00:23:35.400 --> 00:23:40.839
trying to write, So how does someone juggle all these

493
00:23:40.960 --> 00:23:43.599
tenets that are being thrown at us in terms of

494
00:23:44.039 --> 00:23:49.319
building abundance while still staying inside the crumbs?

495
00:23:50.519 --> 00:23:55.880
Yeah? I met, May I have another? You like, lets

496
00:23:55.920 --> 00:23:58.240
take it as little as I can. Yeah, So I

497
00:23:58.279 --> 00:24:00.759
do have like a couple of that exercises. If you

498
00:24:00.759 --> 00:24:02.200
guys want to do them, it's cool. What I love

499
00:24:02.200 --> 00:24:04.839
about this is they're totally free, completely accessible. You can

500
00:24:04.880 --> 00:24:06.960
have them whenever you want, and they absolutely change the

501
00:24:07.039 --> 00:24:08.759
chemistry of your brain if you want to do them.

502
00:24:08.960 --> 00:24:11.319
I mean, you were just saying, yes, man, may have another?

503
00:24:11.720 --> 00:24:14.880
All right, So these are just these are tiny, tiny things,

504
00:24:14.920 --> 00:24:17.480
but they really are life changing. And the first one

505
00:24:17.480 --> 00:24:19.359
I like to do, especially when you're nervous, they say,

506
00:24:19.359 --> 00:24:21.400
you're looking at the promotion, You're looking at the ladder,

507
00:24:21.400 --> 00:24:23.519
you're looking at what's next, You're looking at your bank account.

508
00:24:23.559 --> 00:24:27.680
You're freaking out whatever's happening right in this moment is

509
00:24:27.720 --> 00:24:29.319
to put both your feet on the floor and wiggle

510
00:24:29.359 --> 00:24:33.319
your toes. Swear to God, it just pulls you back

511
00:24:33.839 --> 00:24:35.720
out of the mayhem of your own mind and go,

512
00:24:35.799 --> 00:24:38.960
wait a second, I'm here and I'm fine, And that

513
00:24:39.079 --> 00:24:41.200
sounds crazy, but I have done this when I'm you know,

514
00:24:41.279 --> 00:24:45.279
doing massive presentations, when we're doing venture capital pitching. I've

515
00:24:45.279 --> 00:24:47.279
done it before, getting on big stages. I've done it

516
00:24:47.319 --> 00:24:49.319
when you know, you get the surprise bill out and

517
00:24:49.319 --> 00:24:51.319
you're like, where what the I didn't have that in

518
00:24:51.359 --> 00:24:53.000
the line? You know what I mean, all these things

519
00:24:53.039 --> 00:24:54.799
that can happen is just pull yourself back in your

520
00:24:54.799 --> 00:24:56.880
body for sec just will your toes. And what I

521
00:24:56.880 --> 00:24:59.480
love is nobody knows you're doing it. So even if

522
00:24:59.559 --> 00:25:01.519
you know you're a tough conversation with a spouse or

523
00:25:01.559 --> 00:25:03.240
someone you love and you're talking about money and you're

524
00:25:03.279 --> 00:25:05.680
starting to like do the thing where you're like the

525
00:25:05.720 --> 00:25:10.359
Tasmanian Devil's in your head and just wiggle your toes,

526
00:25:10.960 --> 00:25:13.359
all of a sudden you can't do both. You can't

527
00:25:13.359 --> 00:25:15.920
both wiggle your toes and let the Tasmanian devil take over.

528
00:25:16.039 --> 00:25:17.640
So it just gives you a hot second to go,

529
00:25:17.720 --> 00:25:22.000
hold on, we're a really smart person. Let me just

530
00:25:22.039 --> 00:25:24.680
see what's happening here. And that pause alone can make

531
00:25:24.720 --> 00:25:27.759
a big difference. So there's one. The other thing I

532
00:25:27.799 --> 00:25:30.599
love to help people do is to flip your perspective

533
00:25:30.640 --> 00:25:33.640
on things. And the easiest, fastest way to do this

534
00:25:33.799 --> 00:25:37.759
is to start to notice the space around objects instead

535
00:25:37.759 --> 00:25:41.359
of the objects themselves. So, for example, like in front

536
00:25:41.359 --> 00:25:43.079
of me right now, I can see my camera and

537
00:25:43.119 --> 00:25:45.200
it's on a tripod, so I would be looking at

538
00:25:45.200 --> 00:25:47.279
the space in between the tripod. I'd be looking at

539
00:25:47.319 --> 00:25:49.559
the space around my camera. For those of you that

540
00:25:49.599 --> 00:25:51.960
are watching, you could see there's a chair behind me,

541
00:25:52.440 --> 00:25:54.440
there's a tree, but you wouldn't be noticing those. You'd

542
00:25:54.440 --> 00:25:56.880
be noticing the outline around my head. Say, all of

543
00:25:56.920 --> 00:25:59.519
the space that's there. And once we start to do that,

544
00:25:59.519 --> 00:26:01.640
what you're doing as you're training your brain to start

545
00:26:01.680 --> 00:26:05.160
to notice how much space there is. And that is

546
00:26:05.200 --> 00:26:09.759
a flip from looking at what is finite scarcity? Right

547
00:26:09.799 --> 00:26:12.480
what is finite is the camera begins and ends, the

548
00:26:12.519 --> 00:26:14.680
tree behind me begins and ends. No, but the space

549
00:26:14.759 --> 00:26:17.960
does not begin an end. For those of you, if

550
00:26:17.960 --> 00:26:19.640
you're driving, please keep your eyes on the road, but

551
00:26:20.000 --> 00:26:22.440
you look off right. I do notice all of the

552
00:26:22.440 --> 00:26:25.079
sky versus the trees, or all of the skies versus

553
00:26:25.079 --> 00:26:27.240
the mountains or whatever's around it. You actually notice the sky.

554
00:26:27.319 --> 00:26:30.680
There is so much, and that starts to teach you

555
00:26:30.720 --> 00:26:33.799
to look at there's enough right there. You've started to

556
00:26:33.799 --> 00:26:36.519
see that the tow wiggling is like, this is just

557
00:26:36.599 --> 00:26:38.079
the way it is. I'm going to freak out. Nope,

558
00:26:38.119 --> 00:26:39.759
all of a sudden that changes. It's not just the

559
00:26:39.759 --> 00:26:42.119
way it is right for there's not enough. You start

560
00:26:42.119 --> 00:26:45.160
to look there, and then for more is better. I

561
00:26:45.240 --> 00:26:47.200
like to use sunlight. And for those of you if

562
00:26:47.240 --> 00:26:48.960
you're listening to this or watching this at night, look

563
00:26:48.960 --> 00:26:53.240
at moonlight or the light outside. But just notice how

564
00:26:53.279 --> 00:26:57.279
many surfaces the sun touches every day. You don't even

565
00:26:57.680 --> 00:26:59.119
take it even we just take it for granted, we

566
00:26:59.240 --> 00:27:01.680
just walk right by it. But if you actually look

567
00:27:01.720 --> 00:27:05.160
at every single place that the sun touches, right, you

568
00:27:05.200 --> 00:27:08.319
can see how necessary shadow is. It's not always that

569
00:27:08.400 --> 00:27:12.160
more is better, but that where it is, it can flourish,

570
00:27:12.680 --> 00:27:15.880
and anything can flourish, life can flourish wherever the sunline

571
00:27:16.000 --> 00:27:18.519
hits same with the moonlight at night and that piece

572
00:27:18.559 --> 00:27:22.400
that that creates. But there's also shadow always and this

573
00:27:22.519 --> 00:27:24.759
idea that more of everything is better no, because and

574
00:27:24.799 --> 00:27:27.359
there's no contrast and you can't actually enjoy what is.

575
00:27:27.839 --> 00:27:29.799
So those are kind of my three. They're totally free.

576
00:27:29.920 --> 00:27:32.240
You have complete access to them whenever you want, and

577
00:27:32.319 --> 00:27:34.279
nobody has to know what you're doing, just sort of

578
00:27:34.480 --> 00:27:36.920
your perspective, right, I know secrets.

579
00:27:36.640 --> 00:27:38.839
Right, and I may or may not have been wiggling

580
00:27:38.880 --> 00:27:41.160
my toes this entire time. You never know, you know

581
00:27:41.240 --> 00:27:41.839
about shoes that.

582
00:27:44.039 --> 00:27:47.599
You know, you don't know what I'm doing. Yeah, it's

583
00:27:47.680 --> 00:27:50.480
really effective. It really does work. You start to rewire

584
00:27:50.480 --> 00:27:52.400
your brain to notice things you haven't seen before, and

585
00:27:52.400 --> 00:27:54.960
that is the key. That really literally is the key.

586
00:27:55.480 --> 00:27:58.559
Right, So then how do you take that and apply

587
00:27:58.640 --> 00:28:02.000
that to your financial house?

588
00:28:03.160 --> 00:28:04.960
We need to take a quick pause, but would be

589
00:28:05.039 --> 00:28:09.039
right back right after these messages and now back to

590
00:28:09.079 --> 00:28:09.480
the show.

591
00:28:11.079 --> 00:28:12.680
So then how do you take that and apply that

592
00:28:12.960 --> 00:28:15.960
to your financial house?

593
00:28:16.960 --> 00:28:19.960
I love this, Okay, So let's go back to this

594
00:28:20.160 --> 00:28:24.079
idea of a surprise bill for example, right that comes

595
00:28:24.079 --> 00:28:26.279
in and you're like son of a gun. Right, it

596
00:28:26.359 --> 00:28:27.880
might be like Sarah Walton, I'm not going to look

597
00:28:27.880 --> 00:28:29.480
at sunshine. I have a bill to pay, and I'll

598
00:28:29.519 --> 00:28:31.400
be like, I get that. I totally got that, like

599
00:28:31.559 --> 00:28:35.920
stupid lady on a podcast I heard once, I feel you. Yeah,

600
00:28:36.079 --> 00:28:37.960
And so what you want to do is notice that

601
00:28:38.000 --> 00:28:41.079
the bill itself is there, right, It's real, it's there,

602
00:28:41.559 --> 00:28:43.119
and then you take a second and just look up

603
00:28:44.440 --> 00:28:47.559
and not just that difference from like focusing on it, panicking,

604
00:28:47.640 --> 00:28:49.160
trying to look it up online, trying to get your

605
00:28:49.680 --> 00:28:51.599
like that thing that we get into is you.

606
00:28:51.559 --> 00:28:52.039
Just noticed that.

607
00:28:52.079 --> 00:28:54.240
You go, Okay, this came in. This was a surprise.

608
00:28:54.319 --> 00:28:58.640
I wasn't expecting it. We just take a sec and

609
00:28:58.680 --> 00:29:02.400
you start to notice like, okay, I don't know. Let's

610
00:29:02.400 --> 00:29:04.720
say it was a three hundred and fifty dollars bill whatever, right,

611
00:29:04.720 --> 00:29:06.359
it comes in and you know you're like, okay, so

612
00:29:06.359 --> 00:29:08.279
there's a three hundred and fifty dollars swing here. I

613
00:29:08.319 --> 00:29:13.480
wasn't expecting. Where can that come from? What could I do?

614
00:29:14.079 --> 00:29:16.799
What have I forgotten about? And you just start to

615
00:29:16.839 --> 00:29:18.799
notice things and all of a sudden you're like, oh

616
00:29:18.839 --> 00:29:22.759
my god, I forgot to invoice that client. Oh that's right,

617
00:29:22.880 --> 00:29:25.920
I have paid PTO at my work. Oh, you know what,

618
00:29:26.079 --> 00:29:28.119
that's absolutely right. So and so called me and asked

619
00:29:28.160 --> 00:29:30.000
me about something and I didn't call them back, and

620
00:29:30.000 --> 00:29:32.000
that might be a job. I don't know. There's so

621
00:29:32.039 --> 00:29:34.359
many things other I've had other people say things. This

622
00:29:34.400 --> 00:29:37.400
is one of my favorites. Somebody was around ten thousand

623
00:29:37.400 --> 00:29:39.440
dollars and she was like, what the flip? And I

624
00:29:39.480 --> 00:29:40.839
was like, just sit with it for a hot second.

625
00:29:40.920 --> 00:29:42.920
Let's see what happens. But just be open to the

626
00:29:42.960 --> 00:29:45.240
fact that you've forgotten where ten thousand dollars is. And

627
00:29:45.279 --> 00:29:48.160
I know that sounds very woo woo and crazy, I know,

628
00:29:48.640 --> 00:29:51.559
but she actually did. She'd had stocks sitting somewhere she

629
00:29:51.599 --> 00:29:54.119
completely forgot about from her previous job, and of course

630
00:29:54.160 --> 00:29:56.680
it was like eleven thousand, three hundred dollars or something, right.

631
00:29:56.680 --> 00:30:00.000
And what happens is it's not that this is magical

632
00:30:00.119 --> 00:30:03.559
thinking and stuff magically falls at your head. No, But

633
00:30:03.680 --> 00:30:07.000
what happens is you retrain your brain to look for it,

634
00:30:07.680 --> 00:30:11.839
and that little tiny shift in looking for it gives

635
00:30:11.839 --> 00:30:14.559
it room to show up. And when I first started

636
00:30:14.559 --> 00:30:16.920
talking about this, people are like, no, that's not how

637
00:30:16.960 --> 00:30:19.119
many works. It totally is how many works, is how

638
00:30:19.160 --> 00:30:22.200
anything in our lives works. And one of the examples

639
00:30:22.240 --> 00:30:23.960
I like to give is say you know, you're looking

640
00:30:24.000 --> 00:30:26.799
for a new car whatever, and you decide to buy

641
00:30:26.799 --> 00:30:29.960
a white Toyota. You're thinking about it, You're like, yeah,

642
00:30:29.960 --> 00:30:31.720
I think it's the white Toyota. You go outside, what

643
00:30:31.759 --> 00:30:32.640
do you see.

644
00:30:34.200 --> 00:30:34.640
Everywhere?

645
00:30:36.480 --> 00:30:38.440
It's like this used to be a lot more funny

646
00:30:38.440 --> 00:30:39.960
when we didn't have Ciri. But I'd be like, what

647
00:30:40.720 --> 00:30:43.440
the dealership just knows what you want? Right now? I'm like, oh,

648
00:30:45.279 --> 00:30:48.440
you're like the extras. She's looking at that like, that's

649
00:30:48.440 --> 00:30:51.960
not what happens at all. It's called your reticular activating system.

650
00:30:52.079 --> 00:30:54.160
It's in your brain and you tell it what to

651
00:30:54.200 --> 00:30:56.960
focus on and it will find it. And I had

652
00:30:56.960 --> 00:30:58.400
one client who was like, I'm doing that with lime

653
00:30:58.440 --> 00:31:00.599
green cars. She cracks me up. Has to be defiant, right,

654
00:31:00.599 --> 00:31:01.960
I was like, great, do it with lime green cars.

655
00:31:01.960 --> 00:31:03.519
She's like, every time I go out, there's at least three.

656
00:31:03.599 --> 00:31:05.759
I'm like, really, I've never seen one. And of course

657
00:31:05.799 --> 00:31:09.000
now I see that. You know, It's like, that's really

658
00:31:09.000 --> 00:31:11.079
how it works. And those of you that have teenagers,

659
00:31:11.079 --> 00:31:13.160
I want you to think about this. You will not

660
00:31:14.559 --> 00:31:16.519
allow yourself to lie about this.

661
00:31:16.680 --> 00:31:16.799
Right.

662
00:31:16.839 --> 00:31:18.799
This is where it gets tricky for people like you know,

663
00:31:18.799 --> 00:31:20.480
I'm like, a million dollars does not fall on your head.

664
00:31:20.519 --> 00:31:23.799
That's not how this works. What you say you can

665
00:31:23.839 --> 00:31:28.119
see you will make real. And anyone who has a teenager,

666
00:31:28.720 --> 00:31:31.079
I'm going to give you a scenario. You're like, oh, schmuckers,

667
00:31:31.079 --> 00:31:33.400
She's right, this does work. So it's like my favorite, like,

668
00:31:33.400 --> 00:31:36.240
you're at dinner, right, You're sitting down and someone's like, oh,

669
00:31:36.240 --> 00:31:38.039
I forgot the salt. You're like, great, could you go

670
00:31:38.079 --> 00:31:39.559
grab it. It's in the kitchen and the cupboard to

671
00:31:39.559 --> 00:31:42.200
the left of the stove. Right. So the kid goes

672
00:31:42.240 --> 00:31:45.720
in this not in here, Yes it is. It's one

673
00:31:45.759 --> 00:31:49.720
the second not here. The kid is not lying. The

674
00:31:49.799 --> 00:31:52.119
kid has decided it's not there. The kid, but they

675
00:31:52.200 --> 00:31:54.839
literally cannot see it. The kids see it, it's just

676
00:31:54.839 --> 00:31:56.079
not there. And you walk it in. It's right in

677
00:31:56.119 --> 00:31:58.359
front of there. They're like, it wasn't that. I swear right,

678
00:31:58.559 --> 00:32:02.119
they're not lying. That's how powerful that belief system releases.

679
00:32:02.119 --> 00:32:03.400
It has happened to all of us in the grocery

680
00:32:03.400 --> 00:32:05.240
store too, right, I can't find it. I can't find it.

681
00:32:05.279 --> 00:32:06.519
I can't find it, you asked the person.

682
00:32:06.519 --> 00:32:07.440
They're like, it's right.

683
00:32:08.440 --> 00:32:12.079
It's because we won't lie. We will not allow ourselves

684
00:32:12.119 --> 00:32:14.039
to lie. So when we say I can't make money,

685
00:32:14.319 --> 00:32:16.279
when we say I can't find it, when we say

686
00:32:16.319 --> 00:32:18.400
this is too hard, when we say it's scary, it's

687
00:32:18.480 --> 00:32:20.880
not for me, it's really easy for that lady to

688
00:32:20.920 --> 00:32:25.640
say because she has it, that you will make true.

689
00:32:25.920 --> 00:32:28.119
And it's not like be careful of what you say,

690
00:32:28.119 --> 00:32:30.440
Oh my god, it's not to live like that. It's

691
00:32:30.480 --> 00:32:33.640
to say, well, what happened missed? Where is there an

692
00:32:33.680 --> 00:32:35.880
opportunity I'm going to play the game. I want to

693
00:32:35.920 --> 00:32:38.000
only see black lexus. That's what I want to see

694
00:32:38.000 --> 00:32:41.880
outside what what happens? Start playing the game. And so

695
00:32:41.960 --> 00:32:44.720
if it's like, oh I really do want to take

696
00:32:44.759 --> 00:32:49.440
care of this surprise bill, where would that come from?

697
00:32:49.759 --> 00:32:52.279
And that question alone will have you start to think

698
00:32:52.319 --> 00:32:55.519
about things that weren't there. You know, I have an

699
00:32:55.519 --> 00:32:58.519
old Instagram post. So when I have a new boyfriend

700
00:32:58.519 --> 00:32:59.839
and he was going through my old Instagram and he

701
00:33:00.079 --> 00:33:02.759
on this picture, I was like, oh wow, that's nice.

702
00:33:02.960 --> 00:33:05.480
I was my prom right. I'm like, thanks baby, thanks

703
00:33:05.480 --> 00:33:07.480
for finding out. But it was my prom photo, right,

704
00:33:08.160 --> 00:33:10.279
and there was a dress I really wanted and I'm

705
00:33:10.319 --> 00:33:11.960
wearing it in the photo, but it was like, how

706
00:33:12.000 --> 00:33:15.079
could I get that? And I learned how to do,

707
00:33:15.680 --> 00:33:17.720
you know, nails, and I did all my friends nails

708
00:33:17.720 --> 00:33:19.200
for prom and That's how I got the dress. It

709
00:33:19.200 --> 00:33:21.440
wasn't because I'm like, I'm so studious and hard working.

710
00:33:21.799 --> 00:33:26.920
I asked the question, how could I do that? If

711
00:33:26.960 --> 00:33:29.039
I wanted that, what would I do? How could I

712
00:33:29.079 --> 00:33:31.519
do it? Where would it be? And just those opening

713
00:33:31.599 --> 00:33:34.119
questions start to change things. So when you go into

714
00:33:34.279 --> 00:33:37.640
your bank account and you're not happy with what you see,

715
00:33:38.160 --> 00:33:40.960
it's not whoe is me? See I knew that, stupid

716
00:33:41.000 --> 00:33:43.400
lady and the picture was crazy. I can't make it.

717
00:33:43.799 --> 00:33:46.599
Whatever you're doing that, you just sit back and go, well, okay,

718
00:33:46.640 --> 00:33:48.839
So it's it's I don't know, let's make something up.

719
00:33:48.880 --> 00:33:51.079
Say you want to have a ten thousand dollars emergency fund,

720
00:33:51.119 --> 00:33:52.559
right A lot of people are going through that right now,

721
00:33:52.599 --> 00:33:54.440
you have five hundred dollars a year, and you're like, oh,

722
00:33:54.680 --> 00:33:56.920
they were going to have it, and it's like okay,

723
00:33:56.960 --> 00:33:59.839
but if it did, how would that happen? How would

724
00:33:59.880 --> 00:34:02.880
that happen and you actually allow the ideas to come in.

725
00:34:03.960 --> 00:34:07.559
Because here's what people don't understand, this woo woo world.

726
00:34:07.559 --> 00:34:09.760
I know, coaches, I put myself in this category. I

727
00:34:09.800 --> 00:34:11.400
know there's a lot of entrepreneur porn out there.

728
00:34:11.440 --> 00:34:11.719
People.

729
00:34:11.760 --> 00:34:15.239
I'm apologizing for that. I'm so sorry. Money is not magical.

730
00:34:15.239 --> 00:34:16.400
It can feel that way at times.

731
00:34:16.440 --> 00:34:16.800
It is not.

732
00:34:17.599 --> 00:34:21.760
It's really quite clear what happens to have the five

733
00:34:21.840 --> 00:34:24.280
hundred dollars be there and the result that that is

734
00:34:24.320 --> 00:34:28.960
in that moment, right, is that we have an invisible

735
00:34:28.960 --> 00:34:33.159
world that's running the show. We have our beliefs which

736
00:34:33.159 --> 00:34:36.440
we can't see. And if your beliefs yet, and then

737
00:34:36.480 --> 00:34:40.639
those beliefs give you a certain thought. Right, those thoughts

738
00:34:40.639 --> 00:34:44.239
and beliefs are invisible, but over here we have results

739
00:34:44.280 --> 00:34:48.960
that's visible. We can see results. So what is the

740
00:34:49.039 --> 00:34:52.760
bridge between this invisible world of belief and thoughts and

741
00:34:53.159 --> 00:34:55.719
the visible world of results. There's only one thing in

742
00:34:55.760 --> 00:34:59.239
between those two worlds, and that's action. Right. Action is

743
00:34:59.280 --> 00:35:02.920
the bridge between the invisible to the visible. So when

744
00:35:02.920 --> 00:35:05.719
I look at someone's bank account and I see that result,

745
00:35:06.960 --> 00:35:11.440
I go, great, what's the belief that caused that result? Oh?

746
00:35:11.800 --> 00:35:13.599
Because I know it's there, and you can do that

747
00:35:13.639 --> 00:35:16.119
with anything in your life. Your current health is a result,

748
00:35:16.800 --> 00:35:19.800
your current relationship is a result, your relationship with your

749
00:35:19.880 --> 00:35:22.679
children is a result. The way that people treat you

750
00:35:22.719 --> 00:35:25.360
at work is a result. Your current salary is a result.

751
00:35:25.880 --> 00:35:28.440
What is the belief that caused that result? If you

752
00:35:28.480 --> 00:35:31.519
could know that belief, that is so powerful, Because again

753
00:35:31.559 --> 00:35:34.199
we've got recognition, so you can say, Okay, the belief

754
00:35:34.239 --> 00:35:37.639
is it's too hard to make money. You can immediately

755
00:35:37.639 --> 00:35:39.280
go into that moment and go But what if it

756
00:35:39.320 --> 00:35:42.840
wasn't hard. Now you've got the opening that we were

757
00:35:42.920 --> 00:35:45.920
just talking about. But it's based off of what you've

758
00:35:45.920 --> 00:35:49.239
planted that you didn't even know you planted, And we

759
00:35:49.360 --> 00:35:51.199
know what your beliefs are based on the results that

760
00:35:51.199 --> 00:35:51.840
you're producing.

761
00:35:52.639 --> 00:35:59.519
So what about those of them out there who believe

762
00:36:00.599 --> 00:36:04.519
I can get results, but they're not getting them because

763
00:36:04.519 --> 00:36:07.320
for some reason what they believe they believe isn't really

764
00:36:07.320 --> 00:36:11.599
what they believe. Right, cract, how do you a identify

765
00:36:11.639 --> 00:36:13.559
that my belief system is wonky?

766
00:36:14.159 --> 00:36:15.119
Be fixing?

767
00:36:16.000 --> 00:36:18.800
Yeah, well you know the beliefs, and you know the

768
00:36:18.840 --> 00:36:21.960
belief system is wonky because of the results. Yes, you

769
00:36:22.039 --> 00:36:25.800
can't ever ever, I just we just went through. You

770
00:36:25.840 --> 00:36:29.000
cannot disassociate a belief from a results. It's not possible. Now,

771
00:36:29.039 --> 00:36:31.360
can life happen and throw stuff at us? Oh my god? Sure?

772
00:36:31.480 --> 00:36:33.840
But again and again, how you respond to that is

773
00:36:33.880 --> 00:36:35.599
going to be different based on your beliefs, and you're

774
00:36:35.599 --> 00:36:37.599
gonna have a different result even when life is crazy.

775
00:36:38.320 --> 00:36:41.559
So we know if the results are wonky, if they

776
00:36:41.599 --> 00:36:43.599
are not what was intended, we know there's a belief

777
00:36:43.639 --> 00:36:45.920
at work. There's just no way around that. You can't

778
00:36:46.079 --> 00:36:48.920
you just you can't make that up. That is just

779
00:36:49.039 --> 00:36:51.320
what happens. And we know that because those beliefs give

780
00:36:51.400 --> 00:36:54.440
rights to actions that are causing these results. You wouldn't

781
00:36:54.440 --> 00:36:56.000
be acting in this way if there wasn't a belief

782
00:36:56.079 --> 00:36:59.239
driving your action. So in looking at that, if somebody

783
00:36:59.320 --> 00:37:02.159
thinks they're they're doing that, but then their results say otherwise,

784
00:37:02.199 --> 00:37:05.280
this is when I lovingly hand them a cup of

785
00:37:05.280 --> 00:37:08.320
coffee and say let's talk, right, because what's happening is

786
00:37:08.320 --> 00:37:10.239
there's a belief they're not they're not aware of yet

787
00:37:10.239 --> 00:37:12.639
that is running the show, just like I wasn't aware

788
00:37:12.639 --> 00:37:15.159
of sixteen year old old was running my life right, right,

789
00:37:15.199 --> 00:37:18.559
there's something's happening, or the result would change. It's literally

790
00:37:18.599 --> 00:37:21.559
that simple. Doesn't mean it's easy, but it is literally

791
00:37:21.599 --> 00:37:23.679
that simple. And so we look at the result and say,

792
00:37:23.679 --> 00:37:26.840
what what kind of a belief system would cause this result?

793
00:37:27.239 --> 00:37:29.800
What would someone believe who has this result? And you

794
00:37:29.880 --> 00:37:31.719
take it sort of out of the personal and you

795
00:37:31.760 --> 00:37:35.039
just sort of guess. You start looking around, Well, I

796
00:37:35.039 --> 00:37:37.400
think they might believe that they have to buy two

797
00:37:37.480 --> 00:37:40.440
hundred dollars Jeanes to stay cool, and that's why the

798
00:37:40.440 --> 00:37:45.119
two hundred dollars isn't Uh. Maybe they would believe that

799
00:37:45.760 --> 00:37:48.079
they have to have new drapes in their living room

800
00:37:48.119 --> 00:37:51.320
before the emergency fund is funded. Oh that's interesting. Okay,

801
00:37:51.400 --> 00:37:53.400
maybe they'd have to they maybe they'd believe that. Maybe

802
00:37:53.440 --> 00:37:56.519
they'd believe that that's more important. That's interesting. Is that true?

803
00:37:57.239 --> 00:37:59.599
Is it more important? Because that's okay? But you want

804
00:37:59.639 --> 00:38:02.199
to know about it if it is, And if they

805
00:38:02.199 --> 00:38:04.480
do think that's more important. When they've said the emergency

806
00:38:04.480 --> 00:38:07.480
fund is the most important, what is that belief? And

807
00:38:07.559 --> 00:38:09.599
the belief might end up being I'm making this up

808
00:38:09.639 --> 00:38:11.119
right now, but it might end up being the way

809
00:38:11.159 --> 00:38:12.920
I look is more important than the way I feel

810
00:38:13.920 --> 00:38:20.760
oh oh oh, all of a sudden, it's like, ah,

811
00:38:20.800 --> 00:38:22.360
I do this a lot with women, and I joke

812
00:38:22.360 --> 00:38:24.960
around about the two hundred dollars jeans, right, but it's

813
00:38:25.000 --> 00:38:26.599
like the two hundred dollars jeans and they have underwear

814
00:38:26.639 --> 00:38:30.599
that's held together by safety pin that method, What is

815
00:38:30.639 --> 00:38:33.280
that message? What is going on there? What's for you

816
00:38:33.360 --> 00:38:35.000
doesn't matter, but what the rest of the world.

817
00:38:34.920 --> 00:38:36.239
Sees matters interesting?

818
00:38:36.880 --> 00:38:38.360
Right, and we just do that. And to do that

819
00:38:38.400 --> 00:38:41.199
without judgment, to do that without flogging, to do that

820
00:38:41.239 --> 00:38:44.519
without making yourself wrong is so powerful. And it's not

821
00:38:44.719 --> 00:38:46.920
easy to do because somewhere along the line, we were

822
00:38:46.960 --> 00:38:48.440
all taught if you just beat the hell out of

823
00:38:48.480 --> 00:38:53.239
yourself verbally, then you won't be lazy. It's like, no, no,

824
00:38:53.320 --> 00:38:55.880
that just makes everything worse. It's like no, no, no. You

825
00:38:56.000 --> 00:38:57.719
love up on the kid who thinks it's okay to

826
00:38:57.760 --> 00:39:00.000
have safety pins and they're underwear while everybody else thinks

827
00:39:00.000 --> 00:39:03.000
they're wealthy. That's the kid you love up on, and

828
00:39:03.079 --> 00:39:05.519
that's the belief. You start to say, Okay, well, if

829
00:39:05.519 --> 00:39:07.360
that is the belief, what is it like to live

830
00:39:07.440 --> 00:39:10.360
like that? It's hell. It's hell because every time I

831
00:39:10.360 --> 00:39:13.079
open up my bank account. I feel like crab. Interesting.

832
00:39:13.119 --> 00:39:14.800
But if the neighbors come over and happen to see

833
00:39:14.800 --> 00:39:18.639
the new curtains, you feel good for ten seconds. Interesting?

834
00:39:20.000 --> 00:39:21.400
What do you want to do about that? And we

835
00:39:21.440 --> 00:39:23.440
do that without doudgment. We do that with so much

836
00:39:23.480 --> 00:39:25.719
love and so much empathy and so much understanding because

837
00:39:25.719 --> 00:39:27.239
it could be any one of us. I mean, I've

838
00:39:27.280 --> 00:39:29.039
done it, you've done it, We've all done it. Like

839
00:39:29.599 --> 00:39:31.440
no one's on a box here going well I do.

840
00:39:32.239 --> 00:39:33.840
And if they're doing that, I'm going to want to

841
00:39:33.880 --> 00:39:38.239
talk to them something he does that work? Right? Like,

842
00:39:38.559 --> 00:39:40.719
we're all in this together. And you know I love

843
00:39:40.760 --> 00:39:43.559
to tell people all the time, like, no work gets

844
00:39:43.639 --> 00:39:46.079
to lift you up outside of your humanity. Right, I'm

845
00:39:46.119 --> 00:39:47.559
a coach who talks about money and I'm going to

846
00:39:47.599 --> 00:39:49.960
get surprise bills. Nothing is going to lift me up

847
00:39:50.000 --> 00:39:51.960
out of my own humanity either. And I think when

848
00:39:52.000 --> 00:39:53.360
we start to get that with each other and we

849
00:39:53.440 --> 00:39:56.079
understand we're all in this the beliefs are causing my

850
00:39:56.119 --> 00:39:58.320
results world, Well, how can I ask a different question?

851
00:39:58.400 --> 00:40:00.320
How can I start looking at this differently? We're in

852
00:40:00.360 --> 00:40:02.960
that together, and I think we're in that environment where

853
00:40:02.960 --> 00:40:05.760
there is no judgment. It gets really almost fun to

854
00:40:05.800 --> 00:40:09.360
figure these things out because you're unlocking yourself from different prisms.

855
00:40:11.920 --> 00:40:17.440
So yes to all of it. But for those of

856
00:40:17.519 --> 00:40:21.840
us who are who are trying to change the way

857
00:40:21.880 --> 00:40:24.599
that we do things in terms of the three D

858
00:40:24.760 --> 00:40:27.800
versus the five D, that kind of thing, how do

859
00:40:27.840 --> 00:40:32.920
you align abundance and these types of concepts with a

860
00:40:33.039 --> 00:40:34.280
soul aligned purpose?

861
00:40:36.159 --> 00:40:40.840
Yeah, well, such a loaded question and so beautiful, and

862
00:40:40.880 --> 00:40:43.280
thank you for asking it. But one of the things

863
00:40:43.599 --> 00:40:49.159
I say often is, I don't think universe, God, highest up,

864
00:40:49.199 --> 00:40:54.360
whatever your belief system is. I don't think that God

865
00:40:54.400 --> 00:40:56.400
put you here with these beautiful gifts that you've been

866
00:40:56.440 --> 00:40:58.360
given so you could give those gifts away for free

867
00:40:58.360 --> 00:41:03.280
and hate your day job. I don't what this is

868
00:41:03.280 --> 00:41:05.960
all a complete man made construct that we spend time

869
00:41:06.000 --> 00:41:08.199
away from our families, away from the people we love,

870
00:41:09.159 --> 00:41:11.719
so that we can pay bills for stuff we don't want.

871
00:41:12.199 --> 00:41:15.679
I don't think that that's actually the plan. If you

872
00:41:15.679 --> 00:41:17.559
actually take a moment and think about it, we're you know,

873
00:41:17.559 --> 00:41:19.079
if you're a parent, or if you have nieces and

874
00:41:19.119 --> 00:41:21.079
nephews or children that you love in your life, would

875
00:41:21.079 --> 00:41:25.239
you ever say to them go be miserable, like, no,

876
00:41:25.639 --> 00:41:29.639
that's that's not a thing, right, So it really is understanding.

877
00:41:29.719 --> 00:41:31.559
And this well to your question is where I really

878
00:41:31.639 --> 00:41:34.280
do work with women because women have been taught to

879
00:41:34.280 --> 00:41:36.800
give away their gifts for free, like society depends on

880
00:41:36.920 --> 00:41:39.519
that in so many ways that we don't get paid

881
00:41:39.559 --> 00:41:41.800
for what we do. So there is a lot of

882
00:41:41.840 --> 00:41:46.000
work inside of a soul led purpose, right, understanding that

883
00:41:46.000 --> 00:41:47.880
that soul led purpose was given to you so you

884
00:41:47.920 --> 00:41:51.599
could make a living. It's not an extra it's not

885
00:41:51.760 --> 00:41:53.800
this you know, crazy thing on the side. It's why

886
00:41:53.840 --> 00:41:56.719
you're here. And there's no way the universe or God

887
00:41:56.800 --> 00:42:00.000
would give you that gift and not provide for you

888
00:42:00.480 --> 00:42:03.320
to provide the gift. And what I like to say

889
00:42:03.400 --> 00:42:05.280
is almost how that happens is none of our business.

890
00:42:05.360 --> 00:42:06.920
I always say, I wake up every day and I

891
00:42:06.960 --> 00:42:09.199
keep my agreement with the universe. Some people say their

892
00:42:09.199 --> 00:42:11.760
agreement with God. And that is my ability to speak

893
00:42:11.800 --> 00:42:13.840
and to go out and talk about these concepts. That's

894
00:42:13.840 --> 00:42:15.440
my thing. That's what I'm here to do. So I

895
00:42:15.519 --> 00:42:18.360
just keep that agreement and I keep it constantly. There

896
00:42:18.360 --> 00:42:19.880
are times I don't feel like it, but I keep

897
00:42:19.960 --> 00:42:22.320
that agreement. And I go up and I keep that agreement,

898
00:42:22.320 --> 00:42:25.320
and I keep my agreement that way, and then everything

899
00:42:25.320 --> 00:42:28.880
else gets handled. Do I have to have a business, Yeah?

900
00:42:29.000 --> 00:42:31.000
Do I have to have offers? Sure? Do I need

901
00:42:31.039 --> 00:42:33.000
to understand what I'm charging for? Oh my gosh, yes,

902
00:42:33.039 --> 00:42:36.039
of course. Again this is not magical thinking. But now

903
00:42:36.079 --> 00:42:38.119
that that is set up, my job is to use

904
00:42:38.119 --> 00:42:40.480
my gifts every day to the best of my ability,

905
00:42:40.519 --> 00:42:45.199
and to know that somebody gets sent this podcast episode,

906
00:42:45.199 --> 00:42:47.320
for example, by a friend they haven't talked to in

907
00:42:47.360 --> 00:42:49.519
five years one day that they saw in the grocery store, right, Like,

908
00:42:49.559 --> 00:42:51.639
that part's none of my business. Like that part is

909
00:42:51.800 --> 00:42:55.079
taken care from something much smarter than me. But if

910
00:42:55.119 --> 00:42:57.159
I don't show up and keep my agreement, that part's

911
00:42:57.199 --> 00:43:00.239
not possible. And so when we look at abundance, we

912
00:43:00.320 --> 00:43:03.519
can all have the abundance of self to show up

913
00:43:03.559 --> 00:43:05.840
and keep our agreement with the universe and anybody listening,

914
00:43:05.880 --> 00:43:08.480
you know which one I'm talking about. It's your ability

915
00:43:08.519 --> 00:43:10.800
to make people laugh, it's your ability to have empathy.

916
00:43:10.840 --> 00:43:13.400
And maybe you're an incredible parent and you've always had

917
00:43:13.400 --> 00:43:14.840
this thing of like, oh, I'd love to teach other

918
00:43:14.880 --> 00:43:17.000
parents how to do that maybe you're great at driving

919
00:43:17.079 --> 00:43:19.079
and you're like, I want to teach these kids. Nobody's teaching.

920
00:43:19.119 --> 00:43:20.840
They're all taken uber how to drive. I don't know.

921
00:43:21.079 --> 00:43:24.119
We all have our right that we're here to do.

922
00:43:25.360 --> 00:43:27.760
And this part takes a little bit of faith. It

923
00:43:27.800 --> 00:43:30.599
also takes action, and it takes examining your beliefs that

924
00:43:30.679 --> 00:43:33.960
dictate your actions. But this idea that you would not

925
00:43:34.079 --> 00:43:36.119
have been given this gift if there wasn't a way

926
00:43:36.199 --> 00:43:39.079
for you to sustain your life doing it. And I

927
00:43:39.119 --> 00:43:42.039
think once that truth sort of clicks, it clicks for people.

928
00:43:42.079 --> 00:43:45.599
It's beautiful to watch. You watch a moment where someone goes, oh,

929
00:43:45.639 --> 00:43:47.719
I get that now, and then they go out and

930
00:43:47.719 --> 00:43:49.599
they do their thing. Yeah.

931
00:43:49.679 --> 00:43:51.880
So what if you don't know what your gift is?

932
00:43:52.719 --> 00:43:54.760
You know, you get so caught up in life and

933
00:43:54.800 --> 00:43:57.880
work and whatever, and no you're just yeah, I got

934
00:43:57.880 --> 00:43:58.519
nothing special?

935
00:43:59.679 --> 00:43:59.800
Right?

936
00:44:00.440 --> 00:44:02.800
No? I mean, my my favorite question to ask there

937
00:44:02.880 --> 00:44:05.079
is what a people come to you for? Like, if

938
00:44:05.079 --> 00:44:07.159
I were to ask you right now, you know, what

939
00:44:07.559 --> 00:44:10.119
do people ask you to do? Or what would what

940
00:44:10.159 --> 00:44:11.920
are your friends come to you for? Most people have

941
00:44:11.960 --> 00:44:15.079
an answer or an inkling. And if somebody is thinking no,

942
00:44:15.199 --> 00:44:18.280
that doesn't really happen. You know, one of my first

943
00:44:18.320 --> 00:44:20.119
clients when I first started my business, I love to

944
00:44:20.159 --> 00:44:22.400
share her story. Her name is Tasha Blasi and she

945
00:44:23.480 --> 00:44:26.079
now helps people with IVF. She has one hundred percent

946
00:44:26.079 --> 00:44:29.760
success rate in getting people pregnant and wow, isn't that gorgeous. Yeah.

947
00:44:29.840 --> 00:44:32.559
She came to me. She was a senior executive at

948
00:44:32.559 --> 00:44:34.400
a country music station and she's like, get me out

949
00:44:34.440 --> 00:44:35.840
of this job or I'm going to stick a pork

950
00:44:35.840 --> 00:44:37.360
in my eye. I was like, okay, great, what are

951
00:44:37.360 --> 00:44:40.159
we doing? And she said I want to organize wealthy

952
00:44:40.199 --> 00:44:42.800
women's closets and I was like, really, really do you?

953
00:44:43.199 --> 00:44:45.320
So that's those are the conversations you want to have

954
00:44:45.360 --> 00:44:47.239
all day And she was like, oh god no. I

955
00:44:47.280 --> 00:44:50.320
was like, yeah, it's not so funny. When we start

956
00:44:50.320 --> 00:44:52.679
with the money, we're like all backwards. I was like,

957
00:44:52.719 --> 00:44:54.320
I don't. I don't think that's what you're here to do,

958
00:44:54.400 --> 00:44:56.079
but you know, if it is, we'll figure it out.

959
00:44:56.719 --> 00:44:58.519
And I said what do people come to you for?

960
00:44:58.760 --> 00:45:01.760
And she said, oh, my gosh, my IVF journey And

961
00:45:01.800 --> 00:45:02.679
I was like what IVF?

962
00:45:02.760 --> 00:45:03.239
I didn't know.

963
00:45:03.320 --> 00:45:05.199
I was like, what IVF journey? And what had happened

964
00:45:05.239 --> 00:45:07.119
is it took her two rounds to have her oldest

965
00:45:07.599 --> 00:45:11.079
and then eight rounds to have her second, And so

966
00:45:11.119 --> 00:45:15.800
she had this unique, beautiful experience of primary infertility and

967
00:45:15.840 --> 00:45:18.960
then secondary infertility. And I was like, talk to me

968
00:45:19.000 --> 00:45:21.079
about this and the guilt she felt for like still

969
00:45:21.119 --> 00:45:22.960
going on. She already had a kid and like all

970
00:45:23.159 --> 00:45:25.519
the things that she went through. And then she's like, oh, yeah,

971
00:45:25.519 --> 00:45:27.840
and I was a biology teacher. I was like what

972
00:45:28.519 --> 00:45:31.159
She's like, Yeah, I totally forgot I was a biology teacher.

973
00:45:31.199 --> 00:45:32.880
I'm like, oh my god, you got to be kidding me.

974
00:45:33.159 --> 00:45:36.199
And she's gorgeous and she's funny, and I was like, yeah,

975
00:45:36.239 --> 00:45:38.800
we're putting this together. And what people would call her

976
00:45:38.840 --> 00:45:41.880
for was how to not make the shots hurt? And

977
00:45:42.079 --> 00:45:44.679
how can I get through, you know, the day of

978
00:45:44.719 --> 00:45:47.280
implantation until the day I take my pregnancy test. How

979
00:45:47.280 --> 00:45:48.880
can I get through that without being stressed out and

980
00:45:48.880 --> 00:45:52.280
freaked out? And so she started teaching that. They're now

981
00:45:52.320 --> 00:45:54.039
like over three hundred and fifty babies in the world

982
00:45:54.079 --> 00:45:56.119
now because she taught people how to do that. That's

983
00:45:56.119 --> 00:45:58.760
her thing. That's what she started to do. Right, It's like,

984
00:45:58.880 --> 00:46:00.719
I don't know what your thing is. But if I

985
00:46:00.719 --> 00:46:03.800
can ask you that question and you start getting into

986
00:46:03.840 --> 00:46:06.800
what actually like rolls your socks up and down, it's like,

987
00:46:07.000 --> 00:46:09.239
wait a second, and it could be something very different.

988
00:46:09.280 --> 00:46:10.760
I didn't know she knew about IVF.

989
00:46:10.840 --> 00:46:11.079
Yeah.

990
00:46:11.119 --> 00:46:14.800
Well, and the thing, you know, I think the question

991
00:46:14.960 --> 00:46:18.519
from Karen coming from Karen is is a really good

992
00:46:18.519 --> 00:46:22.320
one because a lot of people don't They don't know

993
00:46:22.400 --> 00:46:24.760
how to ask that question and be able to answer it.

994
00:46:24.840 --> 00:46:27.719
Like I could answer it for Karen immediately, but she's

995
00:46:27.760 --> 00:46:30.920
still trying to figure out what her calling is. But

996
00:46:31.000 --> 00:46:33.480
you just went in on a website to ask people

997
00:46:33.639 --> 00:46:35.360
how much would people pay for something like this?

998
00:46:35.800 --> 00:46:36.880
Oh no, that's not calling.

999
00:46:37.360 --> 00:46:40.280
That's professionally, but you're amazing at it, and people come

1000
00:46:40.320 --> 00:46:41.360
to you all the time about it.

1001
00:46:41.599 --> 00:46:42.280
No, not really.

1002
00:46:42.440 --> 00:46:44.800
Well, she made she made the cake for our daughter

1003
00:46:44.920 --> 00:46:48.519
for a daughter's birthday, and it was unbelievable. It was gorgeous,

1004
00:46:49.199 --> 00:46:51.719
and she couldn't easily make tons of money doing this

1005
00:46:51.840 --> 00:46:56.280
kind of thing. But anyway, whereas for me, people come

1006
00:46:56.320 --> 00:47:01.239
to me because they like to drink with me that

1007
00:47:01.880 --> 00:47:08.559
tech stuff. Well, yes, anyway, So you're one of those

1008
00:47:08.639 --> 00:47:11.920
people that I could just sit and listen to.

1009
00:47:13.400 --> 00:47:15.880
Literally really asked the questions, listen for.

1010
00:47:16.039 --> 00:47:20.679
Days, for days, and so unfortunately we are running out

1011
00:47:20.679 --> 00:47:24.239
of time, very rattly, but I've got Usually we like

1012
00:47:24.320 --> 00:47:27.239
to ask people some curveball questions just to kind of

1013
00:47:27.320 --> 00:47:30.159
throw things in different directions and hoping that you are

1014
00:47:30.239 --> 00:47:31.079
open to something like that.

1015
00:47:31.559 --> 00:47:33.880
I love that. Let's go okay, all right?

1016
00:47:34.280 --> 00:47:39.559
Uh, if you could send one push notification to every

1017
00:47:39.679 --> 00:47:42.760
phone on the planet, just one sentence, what would it say.

1018
00:47:44.400 --> 00:47:54.199
Oh, that's an easy one, just one mmm.

1019
00:47:59.440 --> 00:48:02.840
Probably something along the lines of you really are already

1020
00:48:02.920 --> 00:48:05.159
ready and yes they will.

1021
00:48:05.039 --> 00:48:05.599
Pay you for it.

1022
00:48:07.320 --> 00:48:07.760
I love that.

1023
00:48:09.079 --> 00:48:10.920
I need to figure out what I'm ready for and

1024
00:48:11.440 --> 00:48:12.800
I'm paying for it.

1025
00:48:12.840 --> 00:48:13.039
Okay.

1026
00:48:13.519 --> 00:48:16.719
The second question, what is the sassiest, most loving piece

1027
00:48:16.760 --> 00:48:18.760
of advice you wish you could whisper into the ear

1028
00:48:18.840 --> 00:48:19.440
of every.

1029
00:48:19.320 --> 00:48:20.000
Person on earth?

1030
00:48:21.559 --> 00:48:22.719
Kind of got same lines.

1031
00:48:26.119 --> 00:48:34.599
The sassiest go kick some assets. I think that's what

1032
00:48:34.639 --> 00:48:36.519
I would say, Like, stop it, you can make as

1033
00:48:36.599 --> 00:48:37.840
much as you want, get out of here.

1034
00:48:38.079 --> 00:48:38.119
Go.

1035
00:48:38.880 --> 00:48:39.119
Yeah.

1036
00:48:39.440 --> 00:48:41.679
It's funny because in the same video that we talked

1037
00:48:41.719 --> 00:48:44.800
about earlier, you mentioned about how how many millions of

1038
00:48:44.840 --> 00:48:46.679
people there are in the United States and you think

1039
00:48:46.760 --> 00:48:48.719
you need them all to do run your business, but

1040
00:48:48.760 --> 00:48:51.840
you really only need like five or we know, you know,

1041
00:48:51.960 --> 00:48:55.360
five thousand of them whatever, So there are plenty of

1042
00:48:55.400 --> 00:48:56.320
people for your business.

1043
00:48:56.400 --> 00:48:57.199
It's not like you know.

1044
00:48:57.280 --> 00:49:00.519
So okay, last one really quickly. If money was a

1045
00:49:00.639 --> 00:49:04.000
character in a movie, who would it be and what

1046
00:49:04.079 --> 00:49:06.000
would their dramatic monologue sound like?

1047
00:49:07.039 --> 00:49:08.880
Oh my god, this is so interesting. You said that

1048
00:49:08.920 --> 00:49:11.519
because I actually just did an exercise in the Abundant's

1049
00:49:11.519 --> 00:49:13.519
Academy where I said, I want you to picture money

1050
00:49:13.559 --> 00:49:15.199
and who it is as a character. So I totally

1051
00:49:15.280 --> 00:49:19.679
have the answer for isn't that wild? I've the universe

1052
00:49:19.719 --> 00:49:23.480
does stuff alignment? Yes? Wow? So did you ever see

1053
00:49:23.519 --> 00:49:24.320
Big Hero six?

1054
00:49:24.519 --> 00:49:25.400
Yes? Love that movie.

1055
00:49:25.480 --> 00:49:28.079
There's a big white, fluffy dude right who holds you

1056
00:49:28.119 --> 00:49:31.159
and hug that's my money. Money would be as the

1057
00:49:31.199 --> 00:49:36.000
big and he hugs you. Yes, thank you, and there's

1058
00:49:36.079 --> 00:49:37.960
money flying all around. When I saw this, and the

1059
00:49:38.079 --> 00:49:42.000
monologue is see I was always here. Oh that's it. God.

1060
00:49:42.840 --> 00:49:46.800
Wow, I swear you are one of my favorite guests

1061
00:49:46.840 --> 00:49:50.039
of all the time. This is amazing, Sarah. I know

1062
00:49:50.159 --> 00:49:51.920
you do a lot of things on your website. You

1063
00:49:51.960 --> 00:49:54.400
give a lot of things away for free for folks

1064
00:49:54.480 --> 00:49:56.199
that want to go and visit your site, but then

1065
00:49:56.199 --> 00:49:58.880
you also help a lot of people, So tell us

1066
00:49:58.920 --> 00:50:01.039
about what you do, why should someone go to your

1067
00:50:01.119 --> 00:50:03.119
site and what is it so we can put it

1068
00:50:03.119 --> 00:50:04.199
in our show notes for it, buddy.

1069
00:50:04.559 --> 00:50:06.800
Yeah, yeah, So it's just my name Sarah with an ah,

1070
00:50:06.920 --> 00:50:09.719
Sarah Walton like the Family on TV Sarah Walton dot com.

1071
00:50:10.400 --> 00:50:12.480
I think one of my favorite things on the website

1072
00:50:12.639 --> 00:50:15.119
is the Freedom Calculator, which you mentioned well, and this

1073
00:50:15.440 --> 00:50:17.840
is just it's just a pdf you can download. It's

1074
00:50:17.840 --> 00:50:19.400
got a lot of marketing advice on it, but the

1075
00:50:19.480 --> 00:50:21.480
most important piece is at the very beginning is your

1076
00:50:21.519 --> 00:50:24.039
own calculator for you to understand how much money you

1077
00:50:24.079 --> 00:50:26.400
would need to make in order to feel free. And

1078
00:50:26.519 --> 00:50:28.719
the reason I give that away is I want people

1079
00:50:28.760 --> 00:50:30.920
to know their number based on their lifestyle so they

1080
00:50:30.960 --> 00:50:33.119
can start going towards it. Remember we set awareness is

1081
00:50:33.159 --> 00:50:35.800
so much so you can find out your specific number

1082
00:50:36.280 --> 00:50:38.920
and start moving towards it. And I love that. But

1083
00:50:39.000 --> 00:50:40.960
then you can also find my podcast, the Game on

1084
00:50:41.039 --> 00:50:43.840
Girlfriend podcast and my YouTube channel there as well.

1085
00:50:44.039 --> 00:50:46.320
Right, And one of the greatest things about the Freedom

1086
00:50:46.400 --> 00:50:48.440
Calculators if you go and you ask for it, you

1087
00:50:48.519 --> 00:50:50.840
will get that video that was talking about, So it'll

1088
00:50:50.840 --> 00:50:52.159
be a win win all the way around.

1089
00:50:52.480 --> 00:50:52.800
Sarah.

1090
00:50:52.880 --> 00:50:55.880
Yeah, amazing, absolutely amazing having you on the show. I

1091
00:50:56.239 --> 00:50:59.440
feel like this may not be the last time we talk,

1092
00:50:59.719 --> 00:51:01.599
but I'm just putting out it right and I.

1093
00:51:01.639 --> 00:51:02.719
Feel like I got a lot of work to do.

1094
00:51:03.039 --> 00:51:08.159
Yeah, we'll make anything. It's all good, sister. I got

1095
00:51:08.199 --> 00:51:08.559
your back.

1096
00:51:08.880 --> 00:51:11.440
I got you all right, Sarah. Thank you so much

1097
00:51:11.440 --> 00:51:13.280
for coming on the show. It's been an absolute pleasure.

1098
00:51:13.360 --> 00:51:15.639
We look forward to sticking around, sticking and being in

1099
00:51:15.719 --> 00:51:16.599
touch again soon.

1100
00:51:17.480 --> 00:51:19.199
Thank you so much. You guys can joy.

1101
00:51:19.280 --> 00:51:21.119
Yeah, we're going to stick something. Thank you for being

1102
00:51:21.159 --> 00:51:23.559
on the show. Look forward to keeping in touch with

1103
00:51:23.679 --> 00:51:25.239
you in the future.

1104
00:51:26.159 --> 00:51:26.679
I love it.

1105
00:51:26.840 --> 00:51:28.559
Thanks so much you guys. This has been a joy.

1106
00:51:29.519 --> 00:51:30.920
Okay, Well that does it for this episode of the

1107
00:51:30.960 --> 00:51:33.320
Skeptic Manificitions. Thanks for coming along on this journey beyond

1108
00:51:33.360 --> 00:51:36.519
the Veil. If you're enjoying the ride, don't forget to

1109
00:51:36.639 --> 00:51:39.800
visit us at Skeptic metaphosition dot com to dive even

1110
00:51:39.880 --> 00:51:44.239
deeper into the world of metaphysics and spiritual weakenings. Follow

1111
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1112
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1113
00:51:51.360 --> 00:51:55.519
you're craving connection with like minded seekers, the link is

1114
00:51:55.559 --> 00:51:58.280
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1117
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Until next time, keep questioning, keep seeking, but most of all,

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keep your mind and hoping.
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Sarah Walton

Business mentor and money mindset expert

Sarah Walton is a business mentor and money mindset expert who helps women break free from scarcity and build businesses they love. After growing up in poverty and spending years in high-powered corporate roles — including managing a $130M P&L — Sarah walked away from her corner office to rewrite her life. She’s now the creator of The Abundance Academy and the Game On Girlfriend® podcast, teaching women how to stop living on crumbs, sell with confidence, and step into true abundance. Her work has been featured on The Today Show, Buzzfeed, and Huffington Post and worked closely with Marianne Williamson.