Bonus Feed Drop Episode: Breathe, Love and Magic - The Law of Attraction Love Money and More with Zehra Mahoon

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Have you tried and failed with the
law of attraction using it for love,

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prosperity, business, or weightless.
I don't know if you've ever thought like

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there's some missing piece here to make
this lava attraction thing work, and there

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is. There are a couple of
secrets that can change your success rate completely

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with this universal principle, and that's
what we're going to be talking about with

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my guests in this eye opening episode
about manifesting. So stay tuned, Hi,

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I'm running in Ryan, your go
to intuitive coach bringing real talk to

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the mystical realm on the Breede Love
and Magic Podcast. Feel like the universal

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your spirit guides aren't delivering. Maybe
you're confused by esoteric lingo or which healing

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method to try. Well, you're
in the right place, because who has

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time for confusion when you're trying to
build a business, fine, love,

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heal and recover, or leave your
partner or job. I'll turn that mumbo

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jumbo into clear, actionable steps that
fit easily into your life. So buckle

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up, open that hard chakra,
and let's cut through the cosmic fluff together,

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shall we. Good Fortune favors the
bold and those who aren't afraid to

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call it like they see it right
here on the breeth Love and Magic Podcast.

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In this episode of the Breathe,
Love and Magic Podcast, I'm beaking

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with Zara Mahone. She is a
master mindset and lav of attraction coach,

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and a manifesting expert. She's the
author of twelve books on these subjects and

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the creator of the Unlimited forty Day
Law of Attraction Workout and the Unlimited Universe

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Mastermind. After committing to completely transforming
her self worth in two thousand and six,

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she went from being massively in debt
to owning multiple properties and creating a

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thriving business, as well as healing
her relationship. Zarah helps individuals to identify

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the blockages that are keeping them from
achieving success. She helps them to change

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their self talk and develop new thinking
habits that open up a world of new

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possibilities. Let's welcome Zarah. Hey
so happy to be here. Thank you

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for having me. I'm happy you're
here too, and I'm very excited about

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our chat today. Wow, tell
me a little bit about how you managed

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to shift all that inner chat or
that is so can be so debilitating.

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How did you do that? Were
you committed to completely transforming yourself. I

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gave myself no choice. But I
can't tell you it wasn't overnight. It

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took a lot of work over a
long period of time. Yeah, So

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what was your focus like? Did
you have a couple of specific things that

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really made a difference for you?
Yes, when I gravitated towards law for

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attraction and learning how to use it, yes I did. But as soon

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as I got in there, very
quickly, I realized that that is the

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shortest reason of not getting results,
and so I stopped. If you try

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to use law attraction in order to
get something, it backfires. What go

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ahead instead? Instead of the law
of attraction? Then what did you use

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that help? No? I still
did law of attraction, but not to

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achieve any thing specific. It was
law of attraction, but it was my

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objective became just peace and joy.
So instead of saying I want more money,

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or I want a relationship, or
I want this to change, or

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I want more of this or less
of that, I stopped doing all of

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that because I realized that doing that
was holding back my results. The real

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result. You want. You want
the relationship because you think it's going to

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make you happy. Then you want
the money, because you think that you'll

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do things with the money that are
going to make you happy. So one

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day I thought about it and I
said, well, then my objective should

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just be to be happy and then
I'll just let the universe guide me to

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whatever is going to make me happy. I don't have to worry about it.

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Wow. I want to say that
that is so brilliant, because that

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is the truth. And I can
tell you that I did use the law

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of attraction and I talk about this
a lot on my podcast to attract love,

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and I did find the love of
a wonderful man. And it took

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me fifteen months and we've been together
for almost twenty two years. Unbelievable.

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It did work for me. However, I know that it can get in

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the way if you have your internal
voice going on and on about that's not

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going to work. Who do you
think you are? You're never going to

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find love. There are no good
men out there, la la la,

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la la la. And so I
did tame that and redirect that inner chatter

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because that would be creating a conflict, which would then kind of negate any

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of the positive work that I might
have been doing. So I understand what

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you're saying, and ultimately, if
you're happy, that's how you attract things

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too. So it's a little bit
counterintuitive though to how so many talk about

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the law of attraction and there's so
much magical thinking out there, and there's

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a little more to it. There's
a lot more to it. Yeah,

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I talk about this in terms of
I call it full immersion. You have

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to jump into the pool and stay
in the water. Yes, of whatever

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it agreed. Yeah, you keeps
me getting out because you're tired or wanting

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to lay on the lounge and catch
some raise. Now you have to be

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in the pool. It's a twenty
four to seven kind of operation. Totally.

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Well, let me ask you something. There are people who manifested things

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doing no work, Like I have
a friend. Her business was underwater and

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she wasn't making any money, and
she felt that if she could just go

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bankrupt because she had a lot of
debt from taking care of her mom when

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she got really ill. So she
wanted to go bankrupt to get rid of

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that debt, which she did,
and then once she felt free from the

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debt, then she started manifesting money. So she would just focus on the

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number that she got because her money
started automatically and then she would double it,

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double it, double it. But
she said, I didn't do anything.

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Now I'm not going to tell you
I agree with that, because I

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think she was working in her business. But I just I'm curious how you

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think about that, because you know, she says I didn't do anything,

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it just started rolling. And that's
not true because what she's looking at is

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she's looking at action. She's looking
at the physical world. She's not really

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talking about her internal world internally.
Going bankrupt and removing all the debt is

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the equivalent of removing all negativity.
That was the negativity holding her back.

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She removed it. Now her path
is clear. There are things happening that

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you can't see. They are not
physical things. And this is what goes

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wrong with people who look at someone
and say, oh, that person worked

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hard and that person didn't work hard. How come they both got the same

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result. The person who worked hard
should have got better results than the one

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who didn't. And the answer is, it's not just about the physical action

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that you're taking. It's also about
the mental action that you're taking. And

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I always recommend when people come to
me for coaching and advice, I always

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tell them that if they have debt
that feels like a burden, they should

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do something about it. Whatever,
Because if you've got money sitting in the

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bank and you've got a credit card
that's to the hilt, pay it off

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and you'll feel better, which will
allow more money to come in. But

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if you keep looking at the debt
and you have money sitting in the bank

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account, you're not feeling good.
Everything happens from your feeling good. Yes,

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So anything that's taking away from your
feeling good is holding you back.

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And that is the answer. When
she paid off everything, she felt better

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and now she was allowing her prosperity
to flow. All right, thank you

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for explaining that. So sometimes women
come to me and they're very down about

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finding love. They're just they don't
believe it. They don't believe either they

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don't believe they're worthy, or they
don't believe they are any good men out

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there. I have a lot of
highly educated, very successful women who come

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to me. So it's a terrible
struggle for them to turn this around,

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because according to their we'll call it
viewfinder, they not see any good man.

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All the men online staining creepy,
their their cheats, their low lives.

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They're not educated, they're not la
la la whatever. They don't believe,

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and so I tell them, you
have to find a way to believe

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in love, because if you don't
believe that this is going to work for

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you and that you can find love
and that if you go through this process

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you're going to have what you want, then don't even start, because true,

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it won't work. Yes, that's
that's absolutely true. The problem is

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people collect the wrong type of evidence. You see, our logical mind wants

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evidence, yes, and it's up
to you to collect that evidence right.

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And so if you look around you
and you decide that you're going to focus

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on all the creepy guys out there, then that's all you'll see. But

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if you look around you, I
bet you can. You have friends who

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have beauty full relationships. I know
so many people who are happily married or

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together, but they met online.
So it's not that you won't find them

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online. It's just that you've got
to collect different type of evidence. You've

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got to remind yourself that if it
can play out one way for someone else,

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it can also play out that way
for you. What happens is people

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look at examples and they look at
someone for whom it worked and they'll say,

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oh, it worked for that person, but not for me. And

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then that means you're not collecting the
right type of evidence. You see,

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your mind will not let you proceed
unless it has evidence that you're heading in

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the right direction. So how do
you turn that around to collect the evidence

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that helps you believe. Well,
first of all, you have to come

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to the realization that that's what you
need to do, because the awareness is

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always the place to direct question yes. So once you have the realization,

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it is about being mindful, understanding
what you need to do, and then

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go and do it. For example, I was coaching someone who was in

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pretty much the same you know place, wanting a relationship. So I told

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her, first, put yourself in
the right space of appreciation of what you

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see others have, because that's the
flip that you have to do if you're

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going to look at other people and
be jealous, if you're going to look

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at someone you know, like this
girl that I'm going to tell you about,

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she would come and say, my
cousin's getting married. I when I

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heard about it, I had this
pinge, you know, like somebody just

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wrenched my heart out. Of course
I felt happy for my cousin, and

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I said, no, no,
you didn't, No, you didn't,

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No, you didn't. This is
your younger cousin getting married. You're not

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happy, and so the thing is
to face up to that fact that you're

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not happy and decide that as long
as you feel that way, then you're

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holding back the good stuff because if
you can't be happy for other people,

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then you're not in a place of
happiness. But happiness is the vibration on

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which all things that you want are, so you can't pull it into your

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life if you're not on the same
vibe with it, and if you're going

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to be jealous of other people who
have it, then you're obviously not on

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the right vibration. So that's the
first thing. You have to come up

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with reasons to say you're willing to
let it go, and that where most

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of the word is. If you
can turn that around and give yourself half

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a chance, the universe is going
to jump with joy and bring you evidence

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that you're on the right path.
And once you have that risk. So

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I did that with this girl.
I said, Okay, for the next

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three days, I want you to
just stop thinking about anyone that you know

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in actual reality who has found a
relationship and you're jealous of these people.

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Stop looking at them and feeling hurt. Instead going watch some nice romantic movies

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and appreciate the fact that you know, these stories actually happened to people.

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So she did that for three days, and then she said she went out

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and she said, I can't believe
it. There are people left, right

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and center who want to talk to
me. I went for a run and

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somebody stopped me and asked for my
number. I went into Starbucks and somebody

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bought me my coffee, and you
know, like I went to work and

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suddenly people are noticing me. So
what changed? Well, you changed,

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and the universe is giving you all
of this as evidence. You now need

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to collect this evidence, yeah,
and write it down or find a mechanism

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to hold on to it, because
this is the universe telling you you're heading

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in the right direction and you have
to hold on to this evidence and then

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more evidence will come. But if
you revert back and you forget all of

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this that has started happening in your
life, if you revert back, then

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you lose it all. You have
to start over you know, I saw

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something from another coach that was so
amazing and she was comparing this to your

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news feed and like Facebook, whatever
you like, you know, whatever you

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click on and give the thumbs up
or whatever it is, the algorithm will

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make sure that you see more of
that. So if you like got wrenching

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political stories and you click on those, you're going to see more got wrenching

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political stories. Or if you like
silly animal videos, you're going to see

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more silly animal videos. So that
is very similar. And I thought,

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yeah, it was so brilliant for
her to compare what happens in your social

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media feed to what happens when you
work with the law of attraction. Exactly,

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yes, And I haven't something to
build on on top of what you

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just shared, okay, beautiful?
Is I draw a parallel between a search

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engine and law of attraction. In
a search engine, you put in your

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search criteria and then millions of results
show up, right, Well, law

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of attraction is exactly like that you
put in your search criteria. You just

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that law of attractions not deciding that
for you. So if you put in

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your search criteria, law of attraction
will bring you all sorts of unlimited possibilities.

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The only difference is that your emotions
are a filter. Your emotions are

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a filter in law of attractions,
search engine relationship, and your lonely then

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relationship is equal to lonely. You're
going to stay lonely. So your emotional

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state becomes a filter through which things
come. This is beautiful, and I

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want to apply it to another area
of white losing weight. So how do

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you apply the same ideas that you're
talking about to losing weight? Especially for

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somebody who's been, let's say,
on a lot of yo yo diets,

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or they lost fifty pounds and then
something happened and they gain sixty back and

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now they have to do it all
over again, and they just can't face

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it. So what do we do
in that situation? Well, in that

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situation again, it's a matter of
collecting evidence. You see, here's the

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thing you've collected a lifetime time of
evidence that says that food is your enemy.

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If I eat this, it's going
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I eat this, it's going to
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a cookie is maybe one hundred and
fifty calories, and you need three

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thousand, five hundred to put on
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cookie didn't give you the two pounds. Your thought of eating the cookie gave

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you the two pounds. So change
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that food is your friend. Food
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It's my friend. And never ever, ever step outside of what your

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inner voice is telling you. If
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the cookie, don't eat the cookie, what happens. Pay attention. You

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do have to pay attention. What
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the inner voice says, don't do
this or you know, cut it out,

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You've had enough, now stop and
we don't listen. Okay, But

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how can you tell if it's your
inner voice or your old take, Like,

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how do you know like the old
tapes would say you should need another

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cookie? You know you should need
another cookie. Cookies aren't your friend.

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Cookies make your gain weight and then
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you know that's not? Like?
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don't need to tell the difference because
if your old programming is telling you not

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to do something, you should not
do it, because that's your programming.

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If you step outside of it,
you will hurt yourself. You have to

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change the programming before you change the
action. You can't change the action until

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you change the programming, it doesn't
work. Wow. So it's mind boggling

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because clearly I want to have a
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we're talking about cookies, I'm like, oh, let's see, I could

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have you know, chocolate chip or
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there's this inner conflict. There should
be no inner conflict. You want a

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cookie, go have a cookie.
But if there's a conflict, part of

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you is saying no, don't do
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doesn't matter where that voice is coming
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you cannot have that thing. And
can you really change that voice?

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No? Yes, can you change
a lifetime? My mother says, don't.

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Yes, yes, yes you can. But I can't get your number.

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I'm gonna have to get your number. I can tell you it's not

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easy. And it does take self
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self discipline. If you have a
negative belief about something, don't consume it

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until you change your belief around it. My next question is if we don't

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like these negative beliefs we have,
why do we hold on to them so

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vehemently Because we've believed in them without
collecting evidence to the contrary. We've accepted

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them. So if my mother has
told me don't do that, I've accepted

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her as the expert. I've accepted
what she's told me, and I have

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not done anything to disprove that information. So my mind now will hold on

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to it until I find evidence to
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were first talking about relationships, I
was saying that you have to feed your

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mind evidence. When your mind accepts
the new evidence, it creates a new

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rule. Now you can live your
life in accordance with the new rule.

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But if you don't feed your mind
evidence, it will not accept an action

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that falls outside of what rules you've
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to change those rules, those rules, or believe the same thing. Right.

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So if somebody says I am in
a position of authority, and I

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tell you it is going to happen
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that's it. I'll give you a
little story. This is a fun story.

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So I was organizing a retreat and
I went to Costco because I love

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going to Costco, and you know, I love the sampling stations that they

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put out and you can try a
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So I yeah. And so you
know, sometimes there's a crowd that collects

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around something, and you know that's
got to be something good because people are

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probably going back for seconds. So
I saw this crowd around sampling station and

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I had this big cart. You
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I didn't want to take it because
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line up because it was there was
a crowd there. So I parked my

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cart on the other side of this
sampling station. I went and I got

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my sample. It was something or
the other chicken, and I brought it

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back and as I went to grab
my cart, there was another sampling station

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where I parked my cart and there
was no one there. I remember it

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was Gellette Blades. And so this
woman who was at Gillette Blades, she

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looked at me really sternly, and
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I only took one sample. I

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promise, you know. I was
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oh, I don't know what she's
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And then she opened her mouth and
she said, do you know what

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you did? And I'm like confused
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she says she must have seen that
look on my face, and she says,

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you left your handbag in the cart
to go get your sample, right,

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then I said to her, that
does not happen in my world. You

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know, nobody is going to swipe
my handbag. It does not happen in

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my world. I walked away because
I didn't want to have a dialogue with

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her. But you see, her
evidence of how things worked in her world

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was so different from the evidence that
I've collected about how things work in my

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world. In my world, I
will go to work at a library and

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leave not just my handbag but my
computer at the desk, go to the

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bathroom, and come back and everything's
right where I left it. In her

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world, that probably doesn't happen.
And so the evidence that she's collected about

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the way where the world works says
to her, if you leave handbags lying

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around, somebody is going to swipe
it. In my world, it doesn't

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happen. I've left my handbag in
my car overnight and left the car open.

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Good for you, Well, you
have faith and trust and that's how

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your world operates and nothing else is
possible in the strength of that. So

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but now believe it, but you
really believe it. That's what I mean

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is you have to believe it,
but if you don't have those beliefs.

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Because I didn't have those beliefs when
I started right right, I didn't.

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I used to believe that things can
get lost, and people can cheat,

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lie, steal, all of those
things. I have shifted my beliefs by

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collecting evidence that disproves my old belief
system. You know, when I was

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in high school, I put my
on top of the car to open the

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door, and I had taken all
my silver bracelets off. It wasn't a

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lot of money in the purse because
I was in high school, but I

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drove off purss Now in the middle
of the road. So I was so

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upset when I got home, but
I had my name in there. Somehow

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they found my phone number and they
called me the same day and everything was

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still there. I was like,
oh my gosh, that was what an

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amazing experience, you know, because
I felt I was so mad at myself

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for doing something that dumb, and
yet I was protected by the universe because

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they they found it, they stopped
their car, they picked it up,

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they figured out who I was,
and they called me and they brought me

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everything back. So I did give
them a reward. That's the thing,

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you see, that is evidence that
there are good people in the world,

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So why not collect that evidence instead
of listening to the news and collecting your

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evidence from the news exactly. But
it runs contrary to what a lot of

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people do. Like for me,
I don't watch the news. It's really

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funny because I just listened to a
podcast about EmPATH and you know, I'm

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not one about labeling myself. I
mean, I like to do a Kashak

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record readings and I'm a spiritual person
or whatever, but I haven't given myself

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a lot of labels that are very
popular today. So anyway, they're talking

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about empaths and they're like people who
are empassed. They're not comfortable watching the

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news. I'm like, yeah,
and they can't listen to some kinds of

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music. I'm like, yeah,
and they can't watch certain kinds of movies

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like I could never watch a horror
movie or it's just so funny because I

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never really thought of myself as being
an EmPATH, but according to this podcast

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and the things they were saying,
like, I don't put myself in the

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situation to listen to those things or
focus on those things because they don't make

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me happy. My brother is from
a different political camp than I'm at and

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he always wants to talk about it, so I don't want to talk about

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it. For many reasons. I
don't want to fight with him, but

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more than that, I can't change
it, can't, yes, and it

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sure doesn't make me happy. So
that's what I say. I don't want

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to talk about this. I don't
want to talk about it with people from

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my own camp. Yes, I
agree, there's nothing fun for me in

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that, but some people enjoy it, but I do not. I hear

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what you're saying, and so self
selection is what you're saying, is really

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important to focus be aware, Yes, exactly. You have to know what's

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good for you and what's not good
for you in terms of the kind of

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future you're creating. So tell me
if you will. I'd love to hear

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one of your success stories. And
this example coming up Zarah's referring back to

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the woman who had shifted her viewpoint
and outlook about love. Yes, and

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then she went on from there to
create a spark with someone that she'd known

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for a couple of years and they
had fallen out of touch with and then

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he suddenly appeared in her life.
And you know, beautiful story. Yeah,

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that is a great one. I
run something called the Manifesting Power Hour.

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We get together three times a month
in a group. There was a

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who read something thing at the beginning
of the year about releasing twenty seven things

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a day for nine days. That's
a lot of stuff, and they said

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something magical would happen, and so
she decided she was going to try it.

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And I'll give her a lot of
credit because I could not do that.

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But anyway, she did that twenty
seven things nine days in a row.

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And on the third day after she
completed that, a guy and she

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didn't know what was going to happen. She just wanted a miracle. They

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promised a miracles. She didn't know
what kind of miracles. She just left

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it up into the universe. Three
days after this guy contacted her, who

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she knew in eighth grade. She
sent her forties and divorced. Yes,

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and they are very happily dating.
Now that's right. I mean, I

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can tell you so many stories of
that type. Tell me one that's not

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a loved one. I have clients
who are in business for themselves and their

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thing is about manifesting more clients and
more sales. I was working with the

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real estate agent and she had her
absolute best, So I showed her how

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to prepay, which is a term
I'm using from Abraham Hex I love that,

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and pre pave all her communications with
the client. And she had just

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phenomenal success as a result of it. And the clients that call her when

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they finally got possession of their home, they called her and they couldn't stop

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thanking her for the work that she'd
done. And she hadn't done anything that

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she wouldn't do otherwise. It was
just that she changed her vibration. But

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there, you know, there are
so many stories of people manifesting so many

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things. There's someone that I've coached
and it did take her a whole year,

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but she lost eighty six pounds with
just a combination of strategies that we

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talked about. People can manifest.
We are wired to manifest the things that

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we want. The only thing that
gets in the way is beliefs leaves that

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are contrary to the desire that we
want to manifest. You have to get

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off the desire for enough time to
be able to do the work on your

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belief systems. That's how it works. You can't just visualize it into place.

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What are you doing when you're not
visualizing? What are you doing when

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you're not journaling what's happening in here? Because that fifteen minutes, half an

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hour of scripting and another half an
hour of meditation is not enough to counter

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what you're doing for fifteen hours of
the day while you're awake, however many

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hours you're awake for. So it's
the balance. Once you flip the balance

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and you become someone who just lives
life in a different way, thinks in

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a different way, then it doesn't
matter what you're thinking all day, every

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day, because all of it is
good for you. And teaching people to

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flip that balance is what my work
is all about, and that truly is

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law for attraction, which is why
when people do the forty day Law of

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Attraction manifesting challenge with me I tell
them, put everything that you want aside.

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We're not working on anything. We're
just going to work on joy.

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Ask for joy, and let the
universe find a way to get you joy.

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That's so beautiful. I love that. Find an easy way to get

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to the things that you want.
That is marvelous. I love. Can

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you imagine it could be easy?
What a concept? It can be easy?

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In fact, it is easy.
It's supposed to be natural. Who

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would you say made the biggest impression
on you when you were doing your own

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transformation. There are three teachers who
had a remarkable impact on my life and

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my way of thinking, Deepachopra Vayndre
and Abraham Higgs. Oh, very good,

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all classicsautiful, absolutely love their work. But my own method of teaching

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is based mostly on what I've learned
from Van Dyer and Abraham Hicks. All

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right, well, what a pleasure
talking to you today. I am just

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thrilled. I think that you really
address some of the concerns about the law

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of attraction that people don't often discuss. It's all about write this thing thirty

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three times for three days in a
row or whatever, and you could write

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it one hundred thousand times yes,
if they're arguing in your head and you

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don't believe it, it's not it's
not good. Yeah, exactly, it's

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not going to work. Yeah.
So people can find you at your website

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which is z m ahoo n dot
com and I'll be sure the link is

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there, and then all your social
media will be there, including your YouTube

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channel. Very nice, so people
can get more of you and lots of

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different places. And that's fabulous and
you are sheer inspiration. I am just

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thrilled to have had this opportunity to
speak with you today. Thank you so

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much for sharing all of your wisdom
with us. Thank you so much for

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having me. I really enjoyed it. Excellent all right, until next time,

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Thank you for joining me in this
sacred space on your journey to clarity

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and spiritual growth. If you're at
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crisis or challenge, try Intuitive coaching
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This is Ronnie and Ryan wishing you
love and magic.