5 Quantum Tools to Break Free from Limiting Beliefs and Attract True Abundance

0:00 You ever felt like you were meant for more, but something, some invisible wall is holding you back from fully stepping into your purpose. Well, in this episode, we dive into that wall, what it's made of, where it comes from, and more importantly, how to dissolve it. Our guest doctor Victoria Raider, the Possibility Coach, a best selling author, quantum guide and yes, even Moon Message launcher. You'll learn about that in the interview, joins us to break down exactly how to break through that wall. From her philosophy of quantum freedom to her radically practical take on law of attraction. Victoria shows us that true manifestation isn't about wishing harder, it's about shifting deeper. By the end of this conversation, you're going to discover how to move from fear to freedom using a deceptibly simple three question formula that opens the door to real possibility. Why neutrality not positivity is the secret frequency successful manifestation, and what the law of attraction doesn't tell you How now, understanding the full law of magnetism can finally set your abundance journey on fire. So, whether you're stuck in self doubt playing it safe in your comfort zone or just waiting for a sign. This is the episode for you. Let's get started. What if I told you that the secret to transforming your entire

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3:36 All right, I'm quite disappointed. Now. I thought I could do. The phone and then that would be good. Oh, I thought you we just wanted to about my six pack abs. Now the Secret to Life might actually have something to do with quantum freedom, energy, healing, prosperity, consciousness, mindset mastery, and yeah, sending your teachings to the actual moon. That's a lot of answers. You said that was the answer. Those are like the answers. Why you call me out all the time. I don't like it. So anyway, our next guest seems she's figured out the secret of life because she's done all of that I just said, even sent her teachings to the moon. Oh wow, exactly. I knew you hadn't listened to me. She doesn't listen to me. She is what happens when the mystical meets the practical, then doesn't mic drop. She's a best selling author and a transformational speaker. She's been featured on Forbes, on CNN, on Fox, on ABC, and she's a Broadway producer to boot Wow. Her mission is helping you break free from junkie beliefs clogging up you're manifesting mojo, and finally tap into the quantum field to create real abundance.

4:39 She blends spirituality with science like some kind of metaphysical smoothie, and somehow makes topics like mindset master and energy alignment actually make sense. So if you've ever looked at your life and thought this can't be all there is, right, get ready, because Victoria Raider is about to flip the switch on your limiting beliefs and show you how to actually manifes fulfillment. Welcome to the Show of Victoria. How are you doing today? I am so superbly delighted that I found somebody who do my UFOG. Thanks, Karen doesn't do that for free, though, it's wonderful to you. Likewise likewise, So there's a Before we started recording, you asked the age old the question, what do you want to talk about? Well, it was a hard one to pin one down for you, but you have been called the possibility coach, right, what does that mean to you?

5:27 And how does someone actually start living in possibility rather than limitation. That's what I want to talk about. You know. The story behind that is actually rather vulnerable and does most of the things that are beautiful unexpected. You know, I twenty twenty one ish twenty twenty two. Somewhere there, I have my schedule completely booked. It's like a month long packed overdoing, overachieving, overproving to who nobody knows, but I'm an I want to mission okay, and I have a very subtle feeling. I've learned to listen to it because having lost a lot of people many opportunities by ignoring it, that's one voice that I never ignored. And the subtle feelings has cancel everything. I'm like, what but I do? I cancel everything for the months of March, and I'm thinking this is great. It means I will probably be writing my book, you know, one of the books.

6:17 And instead the ed pops up and it is Jen Gottlieb and Chris Winfield and they're doing this PR thing PR program. And I'm like, what is PR? I swear I've. Built a million plus dollar business completely by referral out of it, you know, like what is PR? Literally? So I sign up and they say, well, what was your title? And I'm like, what do you mean? Well? I have a doctorate? No, no, what is your title? I'm like, I don't have a title. What do you do? I help people? They're like that doesn't work. I'm it worked for me. So they're literally they'll literally say, well, we can't market you if you don't have like a title, like something behind your name. So I went to Facebook. Hey, guys, when you refer me out to other people, what do you tell people that I do? And over two days, over three hundred answers, lots of sobbing on my part.

7:11 What was coming in was I didn't think it was possible to get pregnant, I'll have three kids. I didn't think it was possible get out of debt. Now my business is thriving, and the word possible was coming in every third word. And that's how Possibility Coach was born and branded. I got it trademarked, copyrighted, only to realize that my degree in metaphysics and quantum science is studying the infinite possibility. Turns out there is a branch of philosophy that studies the infinite possibility and I actually have a piece of paper in it. So that's the story of Possibility Coach. Wow, Okay, there you go are triple R. Sorry, when I call you the Possibility Coach trademark registered, I will call you, I will say accordingly. So, then, how does one get out of limitation and live their life in pure potentiality?

8:08 You know? Well? The answer and the secret to life is by being alive. The secret to life is be alive. Okay, so I guess I've got the secret life. No very much have well living being alive. And so what I mean by that is that there are only two ways of being at any given point. There is a being of lack and being of presence. Well, there is a way in between, the bridge between, which is neutrality. And so it's really fascinating me that we're having this conversation we're having now. One of the probably most popular videos I did was over eight years ago, and I did an activation of four centers for happiness in a human brain. I read this really cool book, the Book of Joy, and it was Dalai Lama and Desmond Tutu and they said, there have your okay, so there you have it, and they said, there are four cents in your brain responsible for well being inhappy.

9:05 It's coming through those are just listening to the episode. I just pulled the Book of Joy out of our bookcase and pointed it out. So yes, we did indeed read the book. That is why it's coming through that. And there's this, but then you'll know there's this one little line, like one segment that says there are four centers in your brain responsible for well being. In happiness, and that is the center of releasing negative emotion, the center for processing positive emotion, the center for being, and the center for generosity. And I literally I was listening in an audiobook. I pulled over and I was like, okay, okay, let me scan my brain. Energetically, I work with energy. What are those centers? As I started working and understanding and decoding through five years understanding what those are and not finding any research prior don to that, you then look at the subatomic structure of all that we are, Like every atom that you and I and table and everything is created with on this planet adds a proton which is positive, a neutron which is neutral, and so as such as being still and just being present, and finally a quantum flow particle for generosity. Putting together the energy flow and the activating capacity to be joyful and happy was such a phenomenal revolutionary thing for me. And what I've discovered is that we have forgot how to be neutral neutrality as the skill has died out. People

10:39 have emotional charge of whether I love this or I hate this without giving themselves a luxury of just being. And so the very first step to answer your question to start identifying how to live a life of potential is to become neutral. Can you really become neutral? You can't park a car without going through neutral. You just have to go through neutral, And so that's the first step. I'd love that answer. Love so interesting that you say that, because every lesson that we have read, every spiritual teacher talks about manifestation and law of attraction, all that kind of stuff talks about the need to feel the emotions behind what you're trying to bring forth. But if you're neutral, how is that How are you bringing the emotions forward to bring that manifestation event forward?

11:42 You're no longer working. You're actually surrendering to the flow. So when you and I will the three trains right now, Okay, we mentioned there are three trains, and so you and I are sitting on opposite trains and we're looking at each other through the window. And if your train is moving, I am perceiving that I'm moving or you are moving. I'm not sure there is a movement. If your train is sitting still and mine is moving, you perceive movement. But when both of us move at the same pace, we're actually perceiving stillness and neutrality. So neutrality is not the absence of movement. It is moving at the speed of life unfolding. It is a surrender to the life flow where you don't charge it with your opinion and then you actually are experiencing a bliss of being present to it. It's a very high frequency. You probably don't start there, but it's really cool to observe that.

12:44 Son know, if this is kind of like off to the side, but you're talking about you started talking about possibility and potential, but are I would think are I would think that? So you wake up you're having a bad day. You know, yeah, there's the potential that a lot of great things could happen. But how do you get from like, eh, actually making that potential happen instead of just being out there and yeah, potentially anything had happened. But I can still have a bad life. What can I do to get that potential to make it real? Or kinetic? Yeah, well, it's all about kinetic and that's why we came here in the first place. Let's review our points. We came to the list.

13:24 I think it's I was just half joking before we started recording about the question you ask is what forms your reality. And so when you are waking up in the inch, which I do daily because being Ukrainian there is a phone call about somebody dead every three days, so I can relate to the real deep ich yeah, and the really you know, it's really beautiful for me to have done what I've done because I'm using it for me first and fore most. So it's real life, right, It's not a bubble. We're living in real life. And so when I wake up in the morning and I look at my schedule and I have zero desire, capacity, motivation, or energy to get out of bed, what do I do right? What do I do to get myself out into that whole thing of how do I do something?

14:08 And it is asking a question, it is asking the questions. And so generally speaking, the question is who needs to hear my voice. That by me. Not meeting their need, I am infringing on their joy, on their life, and on their potentiality. See, we're all one. I don't believe I'm born to do me and me alone. I happen to know that every single thing we do impacts everything and everyone, either positively or negatively. And so that subtle reminder of getting out of my own way and saying, Okay, you don't feel like doing ABC and D, there is somebody in this world right now who is feeling a little bit.

14:55 More oft than you do. So, in a very practical and vulnerable way, you ask yourself a question, am I willing to pay the price of not impacting someone's life since I don't know how bad it can be? And I'm not. I'm really not willing for that responsibility. But for anybody who's looking to change their life, and I want to talk about practicality, we're going to talk about the beliefs change. The first belief is things people don't receive. They don't believe it's possible for them. They believe it's possible, or I believe it's possible for her. I believe it's possible for them. The first thing to do is not an affirmation it's possible for me, because when you affirm and internally you can't confirm, then that internal voice inside goes, yeah, you're a lunatic.

15:35 There goes the mirror, and you. In front of the mirror once again, good luck baby, I'm a money. Maggie at the bank is like, really, wow, that gets me. She really okay, So then how do you reframe it? You ask the most powerful question there is what if it were possible for me? This simple question is much more powerful than you affirmation because it's not forceful. It takes guilt away. You're opening a possibility, what if it were possible for me? And then the very next question, how if it were possible for me? How would I make it probable? And the most important the rubber needs the road question and what is the one simple action I can take, decision I can make, or question I can ask to make it a little bit more probable for me?

16:32 The burdens lift it. So if you have a microphone, just pick it up and drop it because that was fantastic. It takes because you can say, you know, if fake it, tea make it, or you can give yourself all these affirmations, but if you don't believe them, but yeah, this takes the burden of belief off of you and kind of change it into wonder. Another one of the tenets about manifestation and law of attraction that kind of thing is is you have to believe it. A lot of we can say it the cows come home, but if something inside you and a lot of that belief. Those beliefs that you have inside you that are limiting you aren't conscious. They're subconscious, You're not even aware of them. So reframing it in that way, you are saying that will remove that responsibility of you having to believe it yourself to make it happen.

17:21 So that's the first step. That's the tap that opens the door. Then living that question, decision or you know, or action to take is very important. Asking that and implementation is very important. But let's talk about the law of attraction. You know, I love working with universal laws because everything is either against the law. I just came home from a premiere from Zero Limits movie where I'm in the movie with Joe Vitally and we talk of Zero Limits and it's it's going to be a phenomenal flick. It already won seventeen wards, really thrilled about its Bland was not on my vision board. It just was like one of those things that rolled into my life. And I said, yes, I love the approach of that because it actually taps a little bit into the laws. So back to the law of attractions can help so many people. Okay, backle in, if you're driving people just just drive over and park, just park like park right now, the park, park and listen. The law of attraction is under the law of magnetism. We get that attraction comes through magnetism. Well, what happens to a magnet. The magnet has two poles.

18:26 One side of the magnet attracts, the other side of the magnet repels and rejects. The reason the love of attraction does not work for so many people is because they're just using the love of resonance tune into something to be able to resonate with it and receive, and things go completely array. People betray them, they lose things, they lose money. Why because they're repelling and rejecting any limitation that prevents them from attraction. And it is in that moment that the panic and they say attraction doesn't work, or their childhood wounds of being rejected come to the wound, and every program about A'm undeserving, I'm unworthy, I'm being rejected because I don't deserve the manifestation, the wave of those beliefs comes up, and instead of celebrating being kicked in the ass big time, give up. They quit, they walk away, and they'll go back to their own limitation.

19:27 So that is a freedom door for somebody else to hear it, you celebrate that. The day you can celebrate being rejected with the same passion that you celebrate being accepted is the day you released the slavery of approval and you stepped into true manifestation through the law of magnetism and attraction. Did you get distray. That? Look? I know that looks well. You're saying that I need to celebrate the ass kicking. Yes, how does that make you get closer to actually attracting what you want? Okay, I'm just gonna say it. I've officially become that guy who wears an energy pendant around his neck. No no, no, no, no, wait before you roll your eyes, hear me out. See it's called the que Link, and I started wearing it because I was feeling totally drained between the show work, family, tech overload, in the non stop buzz of modern life. I was like a walking stress magnet. So I gave this little pendant a shot.

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21:40 That look I know that looks well. You're saying that I need to celebrate the ass kicking. Yes, how does that make you get closer to actually attracting what you want? Because if I have this and this right here, this is my precious and this is my even more precious holding a copy the left hand and a phone in the right hand for those that are listening. This is my precious, and you know what I really want to hold. I really want to hold, but I can't with this listless little thing here. I want to attract something into my life unless I'm surrendered to such an amazing point that I say, ah, abusive partner, goodbye, ah, poor job, goodbye.

22:23 I am so aligned, I'm open to receive Hello, new opportunity. Yes, I was broke, unless you're aligned to say such a pure no that you are rejecting and repelling. Most of us have not been trained in that boundary. And so somebody else comes and tears the phone out of our hand, and we're like, he it was my precious. But that hand is now open. And if we don't clench it and resentment, revenge or regret the three rs, if I don't clench my fist back at the point of a perceived loss or letting go, there's a perceived opportunity to receive that is not talked about. But listen to all of the gurus of the law of attraction. I adore Jack Canfield did a book with Jen Catfold. Here's a real thing. Okay, all this no money, broken marriage, He's paid the price of rejection. Let's talk about Joe Vitally horrible divorce, homeless, hungry. He paid the price of attraction.

23:33 The law magnetism must happen in its completeness and fullness. I gotta take a minute because you scare me. No, no, no, no, you're scaring me because you just pointed out two gentlemen, Jack Canfield chicken soup for the soul Joe Vitally, who is a manifestation expert at large, both had to be homeless to get where they were needing to go. I really want to go somewhere, but prefer not to be homeless. So you're saying there's no way that I can get what I want without being homeless. So you're scaring me because because you're taking this to such lengths that like, how not at all.

24:27 I'm simply using it as any example is when you lack skill to be letting go the electron the negative release. If you lack skill to be letting go of what no longer serves you daily, just like you're brushing teeth because you are focusing on something positive, life will help you by ripping it. Away from you. So no, you absolutely do not have to hit. A rock bottom. But if you do the reaction to that should be okay. That was the most effective fishing way, so me to bounce back up into what I'm creating and celebrating. And I think we've seen that a little bit recently.

25:09 We've had well we meaning him, she's had a bunch of crazy stuff with work going on. You see what idea with the daily baser here. But at one point it was kind of like, well, you know, everybody, you know a big group of people need to quit your job, and we'll give you this little bonus if you quit, because we're downsizing and some people are gonna we're gonna have some people stip and so we're like, all right, I guess we got to quit, and we quit, and we were kind of excited, and then you actually ended up getting to keep your job, right, so you know, for whatever reason, we're still here. What do you look at me like that for? Because it didn't turn out well, I mean he did, he. Hasn't turned out yet. It's turning out. So I've got to tread carefully because my boss actually listens to the.

25:50 Shown you will be at a loss, baby girl, And. She wasn't her fault. She's a lovely, lovely person who has nothing to do with her. But I'm about to reveal my secrets, right, so I know them most of them, Yes, of course. So I'm not very fulfilled in my day job currently. And we have been in the process of trying to bring forth something bigger and better and all that kind of stuff, and yet there has been a fear that has been holding us back from actually and we've had many people come on this show and say, just quit the damn job, and yet there's that fear that has always stopped us from doing just that because quitting means no salary, it means no benefits, it means no vacation pay, it means no security or stability.

26:54 And I think, honestly the biggest part is because we have a daughter, and if we didn't have her, I think we'd be much more like eh, whatever. Right, So here you come yet another person saying you need to be able to release before it comes, and then they start thinking about new reality, kind of like our lives. Right now, we're on hold, waiting for something to happen. So is there a partial surrender? Is there a happy medium? Is there something that we can still do get what we want to get without losing the complete security of assurance.

27:34 Here's cc you was scared, and I'll give you the best answer for ever. The job really is highly irrelevant whether you keep it or whether you have it, as long as you feel it's your limitation, it's your limitation. So by losing the job, you would be losing the limitation. But if today you say, what if it were possible that the job is not a limitation that is holding me back from my big vision, but is a necessary foundation. And what if you went to your unfulfilling job with the immense level of gratitude that it is the foundation that is supporting you as you're launching forward. And that is the choice between lack of presence. Because when you understand that, you are present to an opportunity, regardless of what it is. What if you went to your job as the greatest opportunity in disguise, it will have no choice but to become that and lead you to the true or more aligned opportunity, at which point it will simply fall off. And so what we need to go off is a limitation or what we believe is a limitation, or our belief or believing that it is a limitation.

28:48 I was in real estate when I came to the US, I decided I was going to be a homeschooling mom. I took my two kids to Young Kids seven and three, Insanity No. Eight and four, and we went to Greece for three weeks to study Greek history at their level, and my mom came home from Ukraine. My husband set me down. He said, sweetheart, that is a great thing to have done. I know in Ukraine they don't have credit. In US, we do, and we're now in debt. So I literally went online and I put in what is the fastest way to make money in the US while being a stay home homeschooling mom, And the answer to two thousand and seven the Pico real estate comes in as real estate. So I entered the force of real estate just by two thousand and eight. When the crash happens and everybody's getting out, I don't know any better, right, I'm like, I'm here to thrive. And so, to make a very long story short, I'm actually an extreme introvert.

29:43 And why it is an extreme introvert for me to be approaching people at that point and asking them whether they need to buy. Sell a home is a daily torture, but I literally cry myself to sleep quite a few nights. But the daily torture pays for my homeschooling and seeing the world with the kids. And I literally remember sitting there well and saying, Okay, what if I shifted that, what if it were possible for me to really love this, because I'm gonna do it, by golly, because i want my kids to see the world. So I'm gonna do it. But I'm doing it while hating it. And probably that was the most powerful transition in my life where I woke up in the morning with a commitment that I was gonna love every single hateful up till that moment.

30:30 Part of the job I loved. I loved helping people. I still do that. That was a genuine thing. And so within six months I was the top one agent in Virginia, top one percent in US in Canada. In three years, I paid off the mortgage from my home by my mom's home, I brought my parents from Ukraine, and in twenty thirteen, when the still small boy said and now you're ready to go, it was just that clear of an exit. So no, your great vision does not have to wait for you. It clearly put me into this conversation to say that even at this moment, the choice is completely yours. The job does not have to be limitation. Your brain will say, well, but you don't have time to know that. That's an excuse. I wrote my first book in three minutes a day, literally, and so if you sit down, three minutes is a powerful number. If you sit down and you say, every day, I'm going to dedicate undivided three minute our vision for this incredible vision to come through me. There will be days that that three minutes will become three hours. Sometimes it will be three minutes of dedication where you're sitting and nothing happens, but you're honoring the three minute commitment.

31:42 I'm actually giving the practical things that have led to everything that I've ever done. So there you go. You can just let go of the belief that the job is a limitation for you to launch. Here's the most important question of all. Can you come with me to. Work if you can afford me. It is. Because now I'm thinking about back in the day when I loved my job and things were clicking in all cylinders and it led to all kinds of other opportunities, So now I don't and it's not yeah. Yeah, you can't hate partially or you can't love partially, and you cannot manifest through resentment back to those three hours or regret or I should have quit early, and no, you should enough if you should, or you would have you did, so that's great.

32:31 So is there a perfect time to make a move or are you supposed to go with the floor and just wait for it to be made for you? The inner knowing? Every single human being has a very clear inner knowing, and until they know, they don't and where uncomfortable with not knowing. If you were supposed to leave your job, you would wake up in the morning or you would be standing in the office by the coffee maker and it would be it's time to leave. And what happens? Every single human being has that, But what happens until it's the moment? We hate not knowing and we hate you know, And so our brain is very programmed for no.

33:17 When we were little kids, our parents didn't tell us every single time we did something right, but they told us immediately when we violated something. So we have a ton of neural receptors to recognize no, so we can use it for our advantage when we talk of divine prompting or guide it intuition. Use your language to know when it's no, and when it comes with clarity, you know. Okay, So there has been there have been several times that I have turned to Karen and said it's time to leave, and yet the fear makes me not do that. So kind of a two part question, will the knowing be knowing without fear? Or could it be possible that I thought it was time and yet it kind of wasn't.

34:06 So I don't know what your system of beliefs is on God, divine intelligence, universe, but assuming that we can agree that we haven't self manifested and haven't self created, that there is great overall designer. Oh, God is great overall designer. However you describe that, that's who I referred to as God. The first prompting will come because that great intelligence knows how many of them it'll take that divine moment. Do you really think that there is a possibility of all of our fears that we haven't yet faced not to be known to the creator of all that is No, Yes.

34:49 I'm with you. However, what I'm trying to do is prevent someone from waking up and saying it's time when it maybe isn't. So Andrew, Andrew's probably all my favorite quoteable time. I don't know for a bunch of his books, but came but I lived by that quote and he said, God didn't give us an opportunity to always make the right choice, but we do have an opportunity to make a choice and then make it right. Humanity, the power of humanity is making the choice right. Because what I know, and a very brief energy exchange that I've had with you, guys, if you did lose that job tomorrow, your daughter would not go hungry. You would do anything and everything and beyond possible to have provided for her. You would make it right. And that's just the most beautiful thing for me.

35:45 I slam the door the next one. Yeah, I'm hogging into our conversation because I mean, this affects me. Sounds I would for a while. Yeah, it's it's a lot, and it is. It's so scary, And I guess, how do you get past that fear? You don't you get through fear? Well? Fearing fear is the language of survival. We have different levels of who we are, so fear is always present. It is the healthiest indicator that you actually are alive and that your survival is kicking in. So fear is amazing. If you looked at David Hawkins Scale of Belief, you know that if you are apathetic, or if you are ashamed, or if you are guilty, your desire is to get to fear, because if you just are in constant shame, you know fear is the first energy that says I'm afraid of losing my life, my livelihood. That means I actually want to be here, I actually want to be alive.

36:56 And the only way to. Overcome fear is through love. Actually love you fear. You don't punish it, you don't kick it to the cur because you can't, because it's a part of you. And every time you're doing something you don't know how to do, your survival mechanisms kick in and says you haven't done it yet. We can't guarantee you will survive. That point, you have to say thank you, fear, thank you for helping me survive. I love you. I now want to talk to Mike. See. I call it this scared self. There's a scared self of us. I've actually had a client who came to me years ago. She says, I can't commit, and I was going to give our whole feeling laws and commitment open my mind, and what came in was like, you're very committed. You just committed to your scaredself. So there is a sacred self inside of you.

37:46 And it's fascinating when you look at scared and sacred. So you're currently committed to your scared self. So what if we were to love the scared itself and then sit quietly and say what does my sacred self think for me? And you just recommit to the sacred saul that you love all of you, both part of you. Karen. Yes, we're committed to our scared selves. Yes, yes, are deeply committed. But you're very committed. I'm thinking maybe we should be committed. Getting back to the doors, Yeah, so you see the door and you're too afraid to walk through, so you skip it, and then you get to the next door and you're still afraid. I mean, will the universe limit the amount of doors or opportunities? Like if he wants to quit his job, say five different times and doesn't do it is that like, oh, well, now this is going to happen.

38:39 Well, there be a chance, there's always there's always a chance, there's here's a cool thing, because obviously I do energy. So October nine is when you leave your job. If that helps at all. So there you go. You not have a date, d yes real October nice October nine. So October nine, create a full basis for whatever vision you want right now, right here from the complete practicality of things. Is the only way to talk to your scared itself and it will sell botage your sacredself is to show that it's possible. Just like you talk it's possible, we need to show that part of all of us that it's possible. So me, a very vulnerable and very emotional thing is that So my husband is much older. I've been married for thirty years in February, thank you, But my husband is twenty six years older. And so when we first got married and I got my first baby, and I was holding in my arms, and I was like, what if I lose my husband in the year or two or three, can I even support her on my own?

39:40 And I had to sit down and talk to that terrified part of me and show her that even if I am a single mom with basic survival skills, that I'll be okay. I had to have a plan B versus denying and pushing and waiting. So if you sit down and you say, okay, what is our budget? What can we survive on until we can thrive again? What are ways to provide for it? If I were to lose the job tomorrow, what are three ways that I can provide for this basic budget? And you just literally you say, we don't negotiate with terrorists. I'm like, excuse me, there's a terrorists inside me. I negotiate with her all the time.

40:25 I mean, she's like, you shouldn't go to Portugal. I'm like, yeah, I'm on the plane. It's a little too light. I mean, you've got to show the cards. You've got to show the basic survival possibility, and then when that sabotage is not as loud, you can tune into the thriving part of you. And so here's what I'll tell you. Whatever skill you have, whatever price you put to that skill, if you call every single person you know and tell them the situation and ask for three people that they know that need that skill that price, you will create a three months budget to transition out of your job period.

41:06 It's just that practical. The only the challenge is that there's not a lot of people who are in need of a smart ass and that's really what I'm really skilled at. Then I got that one pretty much get handed down to Okay, well, so interesting that a she mentioned October, which is the date that I thought, right, I mentioned and be Portugal in the same same sentence. Almost so there was a Virginia mentioned and yes she's I don't want to say where she is, but she's, you know, yeah, but I know where you live. I mean not. Really, but yeah, we're good, baby, we're good.

41:51 I just like to keep people on their toes anyway, all right, So then going back all the way to the very beginning about neutrality, we've heard a lot of people talk about the need to my gosh, I need a new brain because I'm having a hard time come up with the words these days. You need to be positive to manifest and everything in life. You have to be at a frequency of positive vibration in order to attract what it is that you want into your life. Non attachment, right, not being attached to the outcome. Yes, not being overly happy when you get the promotion, but also not being overly distraught when you lose the job.

42:31 You have to live in that happy medium, right, So we're talking about that age old tenant. No, No, I'm not talking about staying neutral. I'm talking about the power to get yourself into neutral and then because you cannot go from negative to positive. So the beauty of all manifestation really through the low of resonance, is that the universe does not reflect back to us what we want. Simply reflects back to us who we are, and the beauty of that is that it's who we are at a fifty one percent and above, so none of us can be bought. Procter was one of my mentors, and Bob and I had a really passion fuel discussion.

43:16 He was like, in order to have anything, you have to resonate at one hundred percent. I was like, man, have you met PMS? I am very sorry. So I'm like and I'm like, by then, I said, listen, I've taught statistics. I understand probability. The dominant frequency always prevails, and the good news for every person who's not perfect which last time I heard was everyone is that the dominant frequency is fifty one percent. That should bring a lot of peace. But you can't quite get to that one percent without neutrality. So whatever it is your overall stata being, and so without knowing how to be neutral, most of us have vibreeding a negativity life and fear most of the time. So, as I've mentioned, neutrality is a mandatory first safe place to come to because if you're terrified as something, there is no magic shift that's going to be. Like, I'm so happy and grateful now that that's a beautiful affirmation. I believe in it and I love it. But to get there, okay, So I'll give you a really cool spoiler. They will have heard it here first, nice.

44:25 I am so. A couple of days ago, I had a big release. One of our journals came out, which is worthy me on restoring human worth. I'm going to be giving ATHETICS talk in Florence on three universal laws of worth because I truly believe my current calling is restoring humanity and humanity through the sense of worth. I'm very passionate about that, and so I've polished the first two minutes or three minutes of the talk. And so there's an exercise for anybody who will enjoy it so thoroughly, and it will summarize I think our discussion. So if you've set a. Goal and you reach the what it is, getting a job, getting a car, getting out of bed, you know, I would have asked the audience raise your right hand, and everybody raises right hand because everybody has done something, achieved a goal, and it's like, this is your right hand.

45:14 You're all right, like pat yourself on the back and said, I am all right, it's your right hand. I'm all right, I'm all right. You know I said it, I did it. I'm manifested. I'm at a frequency of bliss. But then ask a question. Now, if you have set a goal and you've done everything you possibly knew how to do, and you get nothing, not a zilch, raise your left hand, and once again it's everybody in the audience, it's gonna we've all been there, right, and that's your left hand. That's I have nothing left. I have nothing left in me. I have nothing left to be able. To pursue it. I have no hope left or whatever it is. I have nothing left to prove. And so the beginning of worth is I know I'm all right even if I have nothing left. That simple, the beginning of human worth is I will be all right even I have nothing left.

46:13 And that is neutrality. I am all right with nothing left. I don't fear the lack. I am not attracted to the addiction of having and the presence. I'm all right with nothing left, because who I am is more than enough to create anything and everything moving forward. And so when you arrive at that sacred point of knowing, you start tapping into your infinite worth. And then indeed, one belief after the next, you understand you are worthy of having a loving relationship and how you create that, and so forth and so on. You have moved me. Wow, Victoria, that is incredibly moving, and it's such a simple way to look at it, but so absolutely divine and earth shaking at the same time.

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49:16 So I teach what's called quantum alignment. It sounds so big, but it is so practical. And you've probably heard everybody say said the theme for the year or word for the year, and then by the end of December they try to remember what the word was. But if you were to actually follow it, I would say that every single miracle I got to witness in my life came as a result of this. So in the beginning of the year, for over two decades, I pray, I meditate, and I say what is my theme for the year. And then of every first of the months, I say, I ask what is the theme for the months that deepens the theme for the year or expanse the theme of the year, but ever sounds better. There's no right or wrong, just how do I live the theme of the year. And I received my theme of the months, and then every single morning I actually will not get out of bed without an answer to what I've mentioned earlier.

50:10 What is my one action to take decision, to make a question, to ask to live and thrive? That one you want to use to live and thrive through my theme of the month. And so that is to me the simplest, complete recipe for surrender, because that's my one commitment for the day, that is my one non negotian And then you look back and you're just blown away by the tapestry that is left behind because when you describe fear, well, it's not present here now. The fear comes of what if and what will be? But what if you completely dismissed the conversation of the job or no job, of what will be, completely dismissed it and set My only focus is my year, my months, one focus for today, and I trust that in the surrender, things that will come through me will be much more powerful than anything I could envisioned by me. And that's been the not so secret but very sacred practice that I have lived through so.

51:24 Little bites. Daily commitment, that is, daily commitment to sacred because none of us are guaranteed that tomorrow. We waste so much energy on foreshadowing that which is not warranteed, or on draining that which we cannot change in the past. But when you completely surrender to this divine knowing, I'll give you that. There are a lot of emotional examples. The movie that I've mentioned will actually have a little glimpse of my little nephew being born with five heart conditions and a whole year of healing leading up to a miracle of that which is really golden. But for the purpose of the show, I'll use my I have a billionaire client. He knows who he is. I have his full permission, but I will love it mentioning an ape.

52:10 So and I insist that you know my quantum freedom family, that my clients that if they want for this unfolding, that that is that is the model of behavior. So I get a text from him, well, swear word, swear word, this is swear word not working. I'm like, okay, hov't is that right? Today? We're having a bad data I said what's going on? Well, I ask the question, and I always say go with the first prompting. However irrational it is because in the beginning, the clear channels of receiving are. Not always you know, just go with He goes it was, go buy an apple. It's like, do you know what that means to me?

52:50 I'm like, no, tell me, he is, Well, I haven't shopped for myself in years. I don't know where the grocery stores. I'm like, yeah, that's a real problem. Fast step one. So he gets to the store like a complete and I say it with great love if you're listening, idiot. He buys an apple, buys one apple. He stands on line with his one apple. That's dedication, right, that's dedication. He stands in line with one apple. He checks out with one apple. Meanwhile, I'm getting texts step by step, you know, Okay, As he is there, he's checking out, there is a very very elderly lady with a very heavy bag. She's trying to get out of the car. And he's really an incredibly decent human being. You know, he's pissed at the moment, but he's a very decent human being who's very pissed in the moment. So he says, that will help you to the car, and she says, no, it's okay. I took Cooper here because my son is flying in and he told me not to do it, but I wanted to prepare his favorite meal. I haven't seen him in a long time. And so he's going to pick me up straight from the airport. And he says, so you're going to stand here by yourself. She says, yeah, but he's here soon. He goes, you know what, I'm going to stay stay here by you.

53:58 We're talking eighty you do on steroids, So he's gonna stand by her. The gentleman who is the Sun comes in and he loads the car and he says, that just touches me deeply. And he hands him a card and he said, listen, this is my private number if you ever need anything, and ever I mean. It, because this is the greatest thing. So my client looks at the card and the gentleman is the owner of the company with the raw materials that my client has been trying to court to get an appointment with for over three years. Oh my gosh, So he texted you the expletive text before he bought the apple, all the.

54:41 Way through it, all the way through it, got to witness the full journey. I got to witness, which I think is precious for both of us. And so while there will be a lot of them, I would stay ninety percent of these little promptings that you'll never know why. There will be moments like this that will bring the whole universe into such complete alignment, and eventually you no longer have to ask the question because as you wake up, the knowing is already there. This is just a training platform to be open to the knowing and to live from the place of surrend. That is amazing. You have no idea how close to the bone you have hit with your entire interview so far. I need to talk about the moon. Your teachings are on the moon.

55:29 How do you what? Okay, that's you know what? Look at this? Look at the alignment? Hi five angels high five. Okay. So following this very system, you know, I wake up, I find myself at Secret Knock, which is a really cool hangout. Greg Red runs the Secret Nong. This is three years and I wake up in the morning and the theme for the months was to receive, so I ponder what am I to receive today, and it comes in receive an off from like, oh, well married, I think my first. My first thought is my mind go to the gutter. You are definitely people. Then I cannot. Follow this PROMPTU. I mean, whoa, Okay, you know talking to the terrorists here, are going to settle down.

56:13 They're all settle down. We're going And so I get in and Greg gates On gets on up on the stage and he says, hey, blah blah blah. Opening the season. He says, you know, at the end of this, I'm going to have an offer for you. So right after his speech, I come up to him and I'm like, I'm here to receive you offer. What you know, where's my garlic kind of thing? I warned that swimming off. Butreg is a very close friend now and a tennis partner whenever I'm in California. So there was a happy ending to that very uncomfortable situation. Like I tell my people, when you know he's a. Soulmate, please don't come and tell him, Okay. So the offer was to become a part of a Personal Development Mastermind for a whole year, a huge price tag thirty five k I don't have thirty five kling around. I'm like, honey, would you still be married to me? If I like, you know, just to call ittle and whatever. He said, Yes, I have thirty years sixty yes to everything anymore? Man, you know. So one story short, I become a part of this incredible personal development project that we get to interview in a very Napoleon Hill mode that he did rich people. We did the giants of personal development and just being in the energy of people and meeting. It was an incredible project. Greg said, listen, I am putting together a group of people. This one is not a paid project. This is a legacy piece, and it's called Lunar Legacy. I'm putting together an actual, authentic book that

57:47 talks about humanity's legacy. Because see, my biggest thing is live your life so fully, serving so joyfully that you don't give a damn about legacy, and then you leave behind you a trail of care uh that is seen in other people. Legacy is not what I did. Legacy is a kid who now is eating because I mean, it's not you know. So you just had the discussion the Lunar Legacy project. Then became this little pyramid that was imprinted on the shuttle that was sent by the first commercial successful flight to the Moon of different people's DNAs and with the purpose of that if there were alien life or if there were humanity, that has become stellar, what is the legacy we leave us humanity? And so that became a part of Lunar Legacy project and March third, twenty five it landed on the moon. Cool.

58:40 That is wow? Oh my god, well coo vianizations and when I claimed the fame, Yeah, my stuff's up with the moon. What are you done? Yeah, you might be explosive leading billionaire, but my stuffs on the moon. What about yours? Buddy? Yeah, but you know, try and be a Saturn would be in searing in this situe. Well, on top of everything else, you've developed apps, You've done all kinds of things. If someone wanted to reach out, work with you, get involved with you, download your apps. What's the best way for someone to get more Victoria? I think the very best first step is actually our app. Our app is only nineteen dollars a year. It is a passion project that we continually add to and develop, and it's empowered toash me up and you can get the app.

59:29 At empower me dot Love. Empower Me dot Love is an amazing place to start for somebody who's on the budget. Right. So, and what the app does the app is in access to a lot of other things. But what the app does it well. One of the things that we haven't mentioned that the app does beautifully. What I've discovered is that there are ninety nine aspects of grief that people do not talk about or unaware that it has. Actually, you know what, let's do that. If you don't release the grief, you cannot manifest because your lungs at the center for joy and for grief. And if your lungs are heavy with grief, that's that neutral, right, that's the app actually demonstrates that beautifully.

1:00:13 You can't go into the bliss because it's a bliss that is heavy and forced. And so one of the the app has many subsections that are incredible, but they are built to be intuitive. So we're going to click on my grief. We can to shake the phone. It's my favorite feature. Don't ask me how much it costs. Please. K was it? Let me tap it out. Tapping is also in the app. Oh wow, oh this is incredible. So because of course we tuned into here. So the first step in the grief is validate. I refuse to believe that this happened. So one of the parts of that we can be on a frequency off. We keep saying I can't believe it happened. I can't believe it happened. And a lot of people try to understand why shit happens, and that keeps you stuck. I say, if you don't understand why bad things happen, congratulations, that frequencies below you, so you have to let it go. Understand English language. My fourth, my favorite understand is stand under whatever you understand you put yourself under. Don't try to understand putin or Hitler.

1:01:22 Do not try to understand things that are below where you want to be standing. Under understand higher frequencies. That's the tip that comes through the app. Now, visualization is the second thing. With your eyes closed, imagine a chronological timeline as if it takes with tears, with tears in different places. Imagine as if a radiant healing light is being poured into those places, completing and making the timeline whole. As it becomes whole, it starts moving towards the beautiful, radiant light of infinite love. Allow yourself to follow it into this feeling of comforting piece. And then the third part is always going to be affirmation, which is energetically charged, a firm with your hand on your heart, it is safe to accept. I'm now accepting hope, I'm hopeful, and I'm me And so there you have it. That's probably the simplest way of an example of going from negative to neutrality, of healing to froming the positive.

1:02:25 Wow, you are like a SoundBite machine. I just wind you up and let. You go to sit and listen. I will copyright that you. Are free to do so because that was amazing, and I will be buying that app. Yes, I think we will be going on a for sure. I could talk to you for days. Right, we haven't even talked about what love stands for. We need to come back because. There's an anytime. You guys are so incredible anytime. Maybe that's what becomes one of your pet projects that creates millions of dollars. We do a little talk show.

1:03:06 We do a little three way talk show. You have the mystery of insights, support and listening like none other and now we know I'm a talking machine. SoundBite machine. It is very different. There's a lot of people who's been her. A lot of people can talk, but people don't talk times. A lot of people talking say nothing. You talk and you give you say things. So we've had like. Ten interviews with information in this hour and it's just been amazing. It has been amazing. Anyway, Victoria, thank you so much for coming on the show and just literally just making us feel like just full of love. Yeah, we'll go with that because mine was gonna be way worse than that.

1:03:48 Shut up. Thanks so much for We're going to add a direct link to our show notes to that app so if you didn't have a pen when she mentioned it, don't worry. Just go skeptic a position dot com, go to her episode Page'll the link directly in there so it's easy for you to access. This thing is really flipping cool. So thanks so much for coming on the show, and I am very excited for what the future holds for us. Thank you so much. October nine,